if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it
2006-11-06 16:20:33 · 3 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is obviously still hung up on him. Tell her that you sense this and that to be fair to yourself and to her, you'd like some time apart for her to figure things out. That's the only way you will know for sure how much this girl feels for you. During that time, figure out for yourself if you can live in someone else's shadow too.
2006-11-06 16:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds to me like she is still sprung. But it doesn't make any sense that she would break up w/ him and still want to keep in contact w/ him??? U break up for a reason. I could understand maybe just sending an e-mail for his bday simple happy bday and thats it but not calling or texting him all the time. Sorry to say but I would talk to her about it and maybe its time to let this one go. No sense in competing for her love when her heart belongs to someone else.
2006-11-07 00:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** her one more time, then dump her back on the street corner where you found the gutter whore.
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2006-11-07 00:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Donkeypunch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋