Singles & Dating - 6 November 2006

i think i still love my ex boyfriend . what should i do ?

2006-11-06 16:10:10 · 15 answers · asked by jen 2

he came here to CA over the summer, and it turned to puppy love. Sadly, when he had to leave in august, it kinda stopped. We called eachother, but it wasn't the same. then my mom found out about the almost innecent letters i was writing, and the long conversations, way into the early morning. soon she also found out that he had spent the night with me at a friends house, and all we did was share a sleeping bag, that was it. but my mom didn't believe me so she made me get all of these tests done, and had the police come to his school (in Flordia, he lives there during the school year) and mine to find out what happened, when i had already told her that nothing did. Soon i had to break it off, but i just wanted it to be a loose relationship... but before i had the chance to discuss that with him, he told me that he already had a GF, and that he didn't care, after just 4 days ago he had told me that he loved me after 2 mnths of going out.Its been 4 months since then.i still care4him

2006-11-06 16:08:49 · 6 answers · asked by miss miserable 1

THe question is Childish but if u analyse there is a big reason behind that ..That is TRUST.People are talking and communicate with them whom they know ..they never try to communicate who are unknown to them ..as all are of generous in nature ..I want the close freind who can get my point .

2006-11-06 16:07:23 · 2 answers · asked by Meghal 1

The reason why my gf doesnt like seeing me masterbate, is because (and ive spoken to her and my friends) it is an insult to her(which i have kinda come to accept), that Id prefer having sex without her when i need it. But the crazy thing is that she is not desperate for sex unless her period comes. So she can go for a whole month with no sex with no problem! She wouldnt mind having sex every few days but she doesnt feel the urge, unless i jump on her and very often her friend sleeps over on the floor and we have the bed. She has also told me that she wishes that her friend would sleep in her own apartment, coz she know i enjoy making love to her and that my sex drive is high.

Is it true that the more you masterbate, the longer you can last in bed? Is stress attributed to shorter periods? Sometimes i can only last for 5 minutes but then my gf prefers only me to orgasm coz she feels no need. And then i can go all by myself for 1 hour no problem and make her orgasm twice! Advice plz!!

2006-11-06 16:06:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How????????? There is this very nice looking, sweet female that works at the local restaurant by my house, she works at Chili's and she is a waitress, Im wondering how to get her name I never see her when I go in there, I only seen her once, and it was truly love at first sight, so I really need help from the ladies, how would you advise a guy to find her name out, then I need to figure the best way to approach her, because she is very busy at a popular restaurant, always on the go, I wish I could catch her and pull her to the side and just tell her how much Im into her!!!!!

2006-11-06 16:06:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is quite long but brace yourselves if you wanna get 10 points. Well, I was friends with this boy since 3rd grade and we started to like each other out of nowhere but we never really told each other we did-it was kinda like this "silent relationship" i like to call it. So we were cool and all and I felt it and I guess he felt it too-besides it's your first love I mean~come on! So we had a lot in common and all and 7th grade came along~well, the FIRST day of school he asked me, "Do you have this class?" because we were 7th graders and we were new to the school. Anyways I told him "No" but now I SOOOOOO wish I had that class with him because then we could've walked there together and asked each other how summer was and how nervous or excited we are of starting middle school-but no, it didn't work out that way.

2006-11-06 16:05:58 · 4 answers · asked by Allahu Akbar 2

I need opinions to whether I'm being fair or not on my girlfriend.

In short, the situation is that we're both 20, together for a bit over a year and a half, used to be long distance (1.5 hour drive) until this July. At that point, I finished a training course for my career and moved to her town to pursue it there temporarily and allow us to advance and move on together.

Before I moved I was very active, had friends, sport, volunteering commitments and kept really busy. After I moved though it seemed that she now controls my life - she gets upset and annoyed whenever I just want to go out - and since July I have barely seen friends, family or anyone. Plus I've had to give up and trim down extras like sport to keep her happy with me staying at home - because staying at home (and watching her choice of TV or doing what SHE wants) is what she expects of me. That...was ok with me for a while -but I need my life back and when I started to try for that - she got mad at me.Am I unfair?

2006-11-06 16:01:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

just found out 2 days ago an my mind is blown.i was so upset I've never lost my cool like I did when she told me yea,and I'm sorry.It's been so quiet around here since I found out.I feel like a BIG part of me has died.all I've been doing is crying.she won't come out of her room,to talk to me she's 17.damn I Love HER AND ALL I WANTED IS TO PROTECT HER.We've always has an open relationship,,,where did i go wrong ???????

2006-11-06 15:59:58 · 33 answers · asked by hl 2

Well here is the story a bunch of guys like me at my school but i am not allowed to date and i am not ready for that. But this one guy asked me out and i said yes because i am tired of guys asking me out. And then i said no.But then my friends told me that he was going to spread rumors about me. So then i said yes once more but i am not really ready soo... please help me handle this..

2006-11-06 15:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I talk to this guy. I've known him every since I've been 13. I like him and you can tell he has feelings for me. He's the type to hide his feelings in order to protect himself from being hurt. I'm kind of tired of playing this role of cat and mouse. We talk late at night all the time but i don't really express our true feelings. I'm the same way sort of but i don't want to be the first one to confess my feelings. Tell some advice

2006-11-06 15:57:11 · 13 answers · asked by Diamond 1

how do you get a guy to like you?

i used to go to public school but now i dont.at my old school i realy liked this guy but now i dont see him,only when my friend who geos to that school invites my to the school activities.i realy realy like him but i dont know how to make him like me.


p.s. my parents know nothing about this and i hope to keep it that way.


please help

2006-11-06 15:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my high school gf is always turned on...when i take her to my house to watch a movie it always leads up to sex...its great but we have sex everyday and i like to do other stuff than sex. how do i tell her to lessen on the sex.

2006-11-06 15:53:20 · 26 answers · asked by Gonzo 2

whens the latest someones started dating?? im not really worried yet but im getting there!

2006-11-06 15:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by eatleavz 2

I feel that my 4 yr relationship is going down the drain (for those who have read my past questions/answers know). I am having trouble walking away for many reasons, but one huge one is that the sex is so great. He knows me so well and gives it to me how I want it. I can't seem to just give that up!


Have you ever stayed with someone just for this reason? is it worth it?

Thanks so much for your kind advice :)

2006-11-06 15:51:43 · 34 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5

Meet a guy recently...he asked questions about me and the other way around, now he mentioned he wants to go back with his girlfriend...is he dumping me for her or is he too shy to really get to know the real me!...We were even hitting it off...? is a girl to do?...

2006-11-06 15:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my b/f an i have been dating for six months an we have never ran into any problems except for now b/c of things going wrong with different family issues and things and i have been so stressed out that i have been argueing lately ...i dont want it to go on further than whats its gone now...i mean i dont want to argue any more and i wanna be with him forever ...but i just feel so sad rght now i dunno what to do and i dunno how to explain to him that its actually not him at all??/....please help...i really dont want this to go bad...i love him so much

2006-11-06 15:47:22 · 4 answers · asked by sarah g 1

2006-11-06 15:47:12 · 3 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe GiRl 3

i have been dating my boyfriend for about a month now but unofficially for about 3 months...another story...anywho, a few days ago he and i were fooling around and he was pressing really hard on my side. hehe of course i didnt notice it at the time but afterwards it hurt but i thought it was just a cramp, ya know? the next day there was a big bruise where he was pressing. i know it was completely unintentional. his biggest fear is hurting me emotionally (breaking my heart) and physically (im fragile due to my health...another long story...). i want to tell him to be more gentle but i dont want to hurt his feelings. i know once i tell him he'll be scared to death to even hold me again...luckily we both have been busy with work so he hasnt had the chance of seeing it yet...should i tell him? or ignore it and hope it never happens? please help

2006-11-06 15:47:07 · 5 answers · asked by woodstock 1

well he says loves me....but i know hes shy..and he prolly wont kiss me.... i really want to do it....but i havent before! how do i make the first move?!?!?!

2006-11-06 15:43:42 · 12 answers · asked by Pinky 3

GUYS--how do you show a girl you are interested in her without actually telling her?

How do you flirt with her? What are the signs you give off??

Touching, teasing, smiling, etc?

2006-11-06 15:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 15:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by Mmmmm 1

Alright, please give me ur best advice. Both this girl and I are college students and i see this girl twice a week. Im going to see her in class tomorrow and im super nervous cuz im falling for her. We've havent been talking much, the last time i talked to her was last week and it was amazing, i felt this chemistry. She just broke up with her bf and i have no clue what to do. I want to ask her out and get her # but i dont know how to ask her, I dont want to be like "Hey can i get ur number?" that seems too dumb to say. I really like this girl, but i dont want to blow it. All the guys are telling me just ask her out but its not that simple, she just got out of a 1 year relationship. Her friend thinks we should hook up cuz we're both single but how..how do i ask this girl out?!? I dont want to make her think "oh my god this guy likes me" and scare her off you know? I only see her twice a week and since that last talk we had I cant get her out of my mind. Please help this guy!

2006-11-06 15:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Krazydude111 2

I think Im falling for my ex girlfriend. It ended good, and we're both still friends, but we don't have much contact with each other except a random texts/calls here and there (we live about 20 mins. apart). She's single, and I've already invited her out to chill with some friends of mine before (she couldn't make it, it was a while ago tho). The whole thing kinda scares me because I don't want to get hurt over something silly like this, something I don't really feel I have any control over.

2006-11-06 15:39:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean i didnt choose to have a gf that was younger than me at the time it was okay but now i am 18 an she is 15 an feelengs are starting to change I have a lot more freedom than she does an i want to be with someone my own age...I wish i would have met her later in life bcause now i am scared to break up with her cause i dont want to hurt her...wat should i do

2006-11-06 15:39:23 · 10 answers · asked by BUD LIGHT 1

But when they find a real bad boy,
Then they get scared.
Am I too much to handle?

2006-11-06 15:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

how is my last question racist?? all i want to know is why white women act in a different culture when they date a black man... and why it is cool to sit on your *** living in section 8 while collecting welfare when you are perfectly able 2 work.

2006-11-06 15:36:40 · 21 answers · asked by semore butts 1

this guy starts talking to me outa no where.. asking me for help in math and from there we begin talking

at first i just thought he was one of those guys that always wanted to know the answer to each and every problem and so consulted with everyone.

then later on when we knew each other more i began to think he was friendly with everyone.

which he is, he knows way more girls than he knows boys.

recently ive been thinking hes got something for me. and i thought he was going to ask me to the dance. but we only talk in class and when we see each other..

he asked me if i was going to the dance and i asked him back and he said he was going with this girl.. and i never noticed till now but they are quite good friends.

when im with him i feel that we're different from how we used to talk.. and its different with him too.. and im dissapointed he didnt ask me. but a part of me thinks he wanted to but didnt know me well enough the other side says im not good enough

2006-11-06 15:34:55 · 3 answers · asked by sam3345 1

okay,i go to a really small school so alot of guys hang with girls sometimes and vice versa so there is this one guy" jared" who ive always thought was cute and funny and about a month ago he told my best friend he liked me and of coarse she told me... and he knows i know and everyone tells me i should date him so, i took my time to think about it and yea it took like 2 weeks but now ive decided i really do like him and now im not sure if hes still interested. what to do??
<3<3Ditsy Blond<3<3

2006-11-06 15:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by xhollow_groundx 1

What are some fun, flrity ways to have fun when kissing..Thoughts?

2006-11-06 15:34:27 · 9 answers · asked by rockchalko7 1

Infidelity is such a huge issue in relationships and I wonder if it has always been this way or if it is kind of a newer problem. I see friends staying in relationships where their partner cheats on them and I am baffled. My parents have been married for 36 years and have never cheated on each other. I refuse to be in a relationship where someone would disrespect me and sleep around behind my back. I've never cheated on anyone. It's happened to me before and it really frickin' hurts. Why do people allow this?
Is it normal and socially acceptable to cheat?
Does everyone do it?

2006-11-06 15:34:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous