i think i still love my ex boyfriend . what should i do ?
2006-11-06 16:10:10 · 15 answers · asked by jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did he cheat on her with you? It's hard to get over someone you truly love. It really doesn't happen until you find someone else and fall in love.......
2006-11-06 16:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by trina24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. if it's love, there is no question if you love him or not. if he loves you he'll be coming around.. he doesn't sound like he's going to turn out to be the best boyfriend untill he grows up a bit and understands that he'll never have real love and trust from anyone unless he quits slingin his snake all over the place.. but if you do decide to be with him, be carful. untill you're absolutely sure that ya'll have love and not lust or boredom, keep your eyes and ears open. if you hear rumors, go to him first, don't add to the rumors by guessing. decide if you believe him or not, and stick with your decision unless you see something that is obvious. don't get stuck with a cheater. i do'nt believe that everyone who cheats will always cheat, i believe that everyone that cheats hasn't found the rite person yet. you may be more "the right person" for him now, than you were two years ago, just remember!!! the rule is, if you seriously suspect him of cheating, he probably is. don't mistake a clue as a coincidence. just don't end up being one of those women that go in circles around the same guy for 15 years just to find yourself 15 years older and still not in a good relationship. good luck
2006-11-06 16:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know,my ex-bf 3 months ago did the same thing.I tell myself that I still love him,but then I say that he does not know what he is missing out on.Now he has a different girl that he is playing with.I just ignore it cause I found someone else that treats me with love and care.So hold on and don't give up.He probably doesn't know what he's missing out on.
2006-11-06 16:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by ~misZ khImMi bHeibi~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hadn't cheated on his present gf, would you still love him?
If you love yourself more than I do, and I love you with the love every human being is entitled to, then you can NOT love him. Treat yourself like a human being and find yourself a real man who will stay with you, or at least have the heart to break up with his gf before he moves onto another!
2006-11-06 16:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, leave the cheat alone. After two years you should be totally over him and since he's cheating on his girlfriend, he will cheat on you. And if he's cheating on her with you, then he will do the same on you with someone else in a couple of years.
Forget it.
2006-11-06 16:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put him in the dog house, you do not love him maybe you are just vulnerable because you are lonely and he is what you are used to, I getting the impression that the person he cheated on his girlfriend with is you, I think he is just using his privlage and oppressing you as a women, do not justify his behavior and you can do this by not sleeping with him, love yourself ma
good luck
2006-11-06 16:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by heynow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember why you guys broke up.....dont want to sound rude but he might have cheated on you too.....or are you the one he cheated with ?
2006-11-06 16:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbelle_oceane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is good when you are the cheater or a bystander. be glad he isn't cheating on you.
2006-11-06 16:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say low self esteem? you still love him, even though he left you 2 years ago and started dating someone else...2 years ago and he cheated on her???? whose to say he was faithful to you...whose to say he will be faithfull if you get him back?
2006-11-06 16:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS THANK YOUR LUCKY STARS
THAT YOU ARE NOT WITH THIS GUY ANY MORE, IF HE
CHEATED ON HER, THEN WHY DONT YOU THINK THAT HE
WILL NOT DO THE SAME TO YOU. HE AN EX.FOR A VERY
GOOD REASON. DONT PUT YOUR SELF THROUGH THE
DRAMA.
2006-11-06 16:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋