he came here to CA over the summer, and it turned to puppy love. Sadly, when he had to leave in august, it kinda stopped. We called eachother, but it wasn't the same. then my mom found out about the almost innecent letters i was writing, and the long conversations, way into the early morning. soon she also found out that he had spent the night with me at a friends house, and all we did was share a sleeping bag, that was it. but my mom didn't believe me so she made me get all of these tests done, and had the police come to his school (in Flordia, he lives there during the school year) and mine to find out what happened, when i had already told her that nothing did. Soon i had to break it off, but i just wanted it to be a loose relationship... but before i had the chance to discuss that with him, he told me that he already had a GF, and that he didn't care, after just 4 days ago he had told me that he loved me after 2 mnths of going out.Its been 4 months since then.i still care4him
2006-11-06 16:08:49 · 6 answers · asked by miss miserable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Number one...change your screename and pull your chin up. You are in for a great life and someday will meet someone awesome, gorgeous and worth it! If you are smart (though at your age I would not have taken the advice either) you will work hard and save every penny and go to school and buy a house someday and get ready to have some great fun and travelling with the guy of your dreams. I know you do not get this now but you will someday. This kid is not worth your time......take it as a blessing that you found out how he is right now and dont hold it against your mom cause she loves you!
2006-11-06 16:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whhoooooaaaaaa.u have a tough mum.i cant say "make sure ur bf doesnt keep another gf".u cant check it out,can u?all i can say is call often.sms often.long distance relationship is better than near distance,at least there are less quarrels.when both of u meet,it will be soooo romantic..oh dear,tis is the 1st relationship problem i cant hlp..damn it...cos i met the same problem 2times b4 and it ends up like crap...aiiii,tis is the worse answer i have ever type
2006-11-06 16:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by mR questiOn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you sign your name as Miss Miserable--my guess is time to find some new company (because "Misery" loves company)
think--guys only tell you they love you for one reason--S E X !!! maybe when you're married and celebrated many anniversaries a little sincerity may creep out of a handful of men, but for the most part no... you said it yourself--he told you point blank he didn't care--so treasure the memory, but forge ahead to new waters, and try to be a little less miserable, because you sound so young, which means most likely you have a lot of life left in you --so in the words of the famous reggae song "DONT WORRY BE HAPPY"
2006-11-06 16:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by laid back 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's already moved on, you have got to shower yourself with tough love. First, decide that you want to move on and then do everything that you can to distract yourself. Later on, that day will come when you realize that you don't care as much for him anymore than you thought you did.
2006-11-06 16:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Trillian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U just gotta deal with it. I know its hard at first but u gotta do what u gotta do. U go girl get yo man back.
2006-11-06 16:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. Stop thinking about it and find someone closer to your area. Its over with him.
2006-11-06 16:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋