The reason why my gf doesnt like seeing me masterbate, is because (and ive spoken to her and my friends) it is an insult to her(which i have kinda come to accept), that Id prefer having sex without her when i need it. But the crazy thing is that she is not desperate for sex unless her period comes. So she can go for a whole month with no sex with no problem! She wouldnt mind having sex every few days but she doesnt feel the urge, unless i jump on her and very often her friend sleeps over on the floor and we have the bed. She has also told me that she wishes that her friend would sleep in her own apartment, coz she know i enjoy making love to her and that my sex drive is high.
Is it true that the more you masterbate, the longer you can last in bed? Is stress attributed to shorter periods? Sometimes i can only last for 5 minutes but then my gf prefers only me to orgasm coz she feels no need. And then i can go all by myself for 1 hour no problem and make her orgasm twice! Advice plz!!
2006-11-06 16:06:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find yourself an Irish girl.
2006-11-06 16:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Repub-lick'n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend needs to grow up, it's not an insult to her, don't accept that, it's ridiculous!! On the other hand (no pun intended), doing it in front of her is a bit unnecessary if it doesn't turn her on.
Are you actually choosing masturbation first without seeing if she's interested in sex herself. If that's the case, both of you are boneheads! You should jump her bones and your girlfriend should get smart: when she catches you masturbating and wants it, she should drop all her clothes and jump on you.
Also, does she really have to know how much you masturbate? If you feel the urge, do it in the bathroom or something. If you prefer masturbating because you least longer when in fact she wants sex, then there's a problem. Her needs are being ignored and it's not an issue about masturbation, it's an issue about not pleasing your partner. If you want to learn to last more than five minutes, practice!!! :-)
If you want a creative solution, why not masturbate while you perform oral sex on her or something. Make it part of an extended foreplay and have sex with her in the end. (uh, not necessarily "in" the end, but you get my drift)
2006-11-06 16:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mmmmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is not an insult to her. If it bothers her she should have more intimate relations with you. Not just her standing idly by while you do your business. If you find yourself going too fast then try other things. Get her warmed orally. If you don't like that idea try a toy. You may find that she wants it more often. She also doesn't have to know that you jack off. Try doing it when shes not home or when you're in the bathroom. I have a friend who has great sex whenever he wants it and still whacks it 2-3 times a day. Masturbation is just something that guys do.
2006-11-06 16:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what is your question? You obviously found out that once you're done you can go on for hours which answers your question about masturbation. However if you masturbate every day it will not make you last longer. You need to masturbate just before you have sex.
2006-11-06 16:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONTROL ! Was it out of control like....A garden hose out of control? If so would be bragging?
Control that one eyed spitting pants snake by putting it back in ya pants dude!
Are you being selfish make the girl go DUDE, Do whatever it takes. Let me recommend a silver bullet, or your going to come down with a serious case of ambidextrous carpal tunnel syndrom.
2006-11-06 16:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by bex920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you exspect. for heavens sakes you have aperson sleeping on the floor i assume in the same room the way i take itfrom your guestion. not to many girls would wanna make love or any thing else with another person in the room or so near they can hear every sound or word that is going on. i know i wouldn't
2006-11-06 16:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by dulla mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let her wake up one morning to groaning sounds of her friend while you are pounding her doggy style on the floor. If this doesn't wake her up, start dating her friend.
2006-11-06 16:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get masterbation under control? Use two hands.
2006-11-06 16:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you masterbate, the longer you last... she should be thanking you!!! I wish my bf could last an hour!
2006-11-06 16:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by heythere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIT IT WITH A HAMMER!
2006-11-06 16:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋