Well I am single and often times feel depressed, one way out I got is porn. But porn is considered wrong when you are a married man it causes problems and stuff. But what about if I am not married? I mean I couldn't find ms.right, and I don't want to endulge myself in the dating drama world.
Plus ,don't suggest church activities, because I live in a small country town and I am a foreginer from Africa, so no one wants me around, I mean they won't tell me to go but still I can feel the unwantingness.
Any ideas as to why I can't atleast get over my boredom and loneliness with porn?
2006-11-06 16:22:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Porn is very addictive....and it leads you down a path you don't want to go. The thoughts and then actions grow and grow and WILL become a problem for you and possibly hinder any real relationships that you might want to have. Try to do something for someone else. Certainly there must be a hospital or elder care place that would jump at the chance of having someone help them out 1-2 times a week. Pretty soon, you would discover your self-worth, find happiness in serving others, develop a closer relationship with God and climb out of your depression. Trust me, you will be blessed and surprised and eventually wonder what ever drew you into such things as porn. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-11-06 17:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Nisey 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can watch porn as much as you want, you're not married nor have a girlfriend. But if you keep on staying locked up you will never meet anyone. Join a gym or the YMCA. You need to move to a bigger town or city where you have more of an opportunity to meet people.
2006-11-06 16:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a man. Porn is natural. I have a friend who has been married for 2 years and him and his wife both watch it consistently. Keep in mind everything is good in moderation and there is no replacement for the real thing, but in the mean time porn away. If it makes you happy do it.
2006-11-06 16:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all love porn. It's a way for us to relax and get exciting. It's a form of entertainment. If you think it's wrong then don't do it. Whoever said tey never looked at porn before then they are lying. But I think your problem is you just feel like people don't welcome you; maybe you should look at how you meet and greet people. Try talking to people and smiles and show them how friendly you are. Sometimes you have to lower yourself abid and open up.
Anyway case, if not work out move out to another city.
2006-11-06 16:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by THX_4_answering 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever float ur boat. try visiting neighboring cities they might be more accepting, or just give them more time alot of people don't like it when someone new moves to town because they don't know. (especially in small town where everyone have grown up together) and don't give up on mrs. right she is out there somewhere.
2006-11-06 16:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a pastor once told me that looking at porn cheats your relationship with your future spouce even if you havent met her yet. personally as long as it doesnt interfere with your life and other activities then i dont see a problem with it. just know there is a time and a place for it. as for mrs. right i swear she is out there. at least i hope so or im screwed with you too. haha keep your head up and your chin too.
2006-11-06 16:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by fsufkshtup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn is totally wrong . Your are not suppose to look upon others nakedness. Why don't you sign up for myspace .com it is a place that people add you or you search and ask them to be your friend. It is easy and you get alot of friends that way. it won't take you long to get friends. and plus you design your own web page and it is free. I have one and i made friends. check it out if you have any question about myspace. email me and i will help you out.
2006-11-06 16:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
First of all if you are a Christian you should know your answer. If this is a problem you need to pray for God to deliver you. Why not read the Bible you will get more from it. There are plenty of other activities you can do.
2006-11-06 16:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by rufi 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
err......well its not what your ment to do because your not ment to have or see sex but since your single......i guss it would mean no harm. good luck!!!!!!
2006-11-06 16:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋