So i've been with this guy off and on for 5 years. We have two kids one is just 4 months old. I love him very much but i recently found a profile of him on a singles site. It was made the month I was dueHe tried lying first until i convinced him i would have to be a mushroom to eat this bull chit. He says he was just looking and wqas worried we would break up again. We broke shortly after the birth of my first. i have a hard time trusting anything now and am so hurt that I keep bringing it up. He says he loves me and wants to get married and I love him. I know I'm still good looking, I went out the other night and got hit on hordes, we have sex 4-5 times a week so it's not htat he wasn't getting any. What should I do? How can rebuild the trust?
2006-11-06 16:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF YOU AND THIS MAN HAVE BEEN TOGTHER ON AND OFF
FOR 5 YEARS. AND YOU CANT TRUST HIM THEN WHY DO
YOU THINK THAT YOU WILL EVER BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM
AND FOR THE SITE THAT NOT COOL AT ALL. THAT MAY
SAY A LOT ABOUT WHAT GOING. AND YOU KNOW THAT
YOU STILL GET IT. SO DONT WORRY ABOUT THIS IF
IT REALLY IS MEANT TO HAPPPEN IT WILL BUT YOU KNOW
NOW THAT YOU DONT NEED HIM TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.
2006-11-06 16:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite honestly, first get married.....If he will not......then, its ovver...... when he does marry you, then you can get child support.
Even , if you do not,,and he is not living with you,, or you do not libe with him...go to social services...look in your phone book!!!
As much as you love him.........tis not worth it!!!!
There are alot of men out there, also looking for a lady with children.
2006-11-07 00:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to rebuild a trust of yourself.
If you think you can trust this guy...go on....
but i think it is unfair in your part that you are exerting much effort and he is not bothered returning the favor on you! My advise is.. try to think about yourself too.....
2006-11-07 00:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find what is weak in your relationship and do you best to try to make it better.
2006-11-07 00:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't care about it
2006-11-07 00:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by mario h 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋