Girls how would you feel if your boyfriend was doing this?

Question

Ok first of all you're 19 and you're dating a 43yr old man who's been your best friend that you met online three years ago. Three years ago he dated your sister who was 14 at the time but she broke it off three years later.(I'm not any of them)

Ok since you are dating he's been calling this other girl on her twenties that you don't know about at all, he'd call her three to four times a week and they'd talk until midnight or later,. But how would you feel if your boyfriend was asking this girl what she looked like down there? wanted to know what every inch of her body looked like? And she didn't bring this on but you don't know that.

How would you feel?

Oh and he never lets her call him so you won't find out.

Answer 1

Get the f*ck out!
I don't think there'd be many women that bloody stupid.

Answer 2

First of all I would not be stupid enough to let any of this go on. How can you know that he's cheating on you and accept it??? You clearly know what's being done to you right in your face and you act as if it's no big deal. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to come up with an answer to this. What you need to do is get yourself out of this relationship. It's not because he's older, it's because he's a pervert. Any man that old that messes around with 14 yr olds is disgusting. He's also nothing but a player too. Why are you even wasting your time?? Your worth more than this and you should have more respect for yourself. Get away from this loser before things really start turning ugly, and they will if you don't get out of there now.

Answer 3

Dated your sister 3 yrs. ago(online?). CALL THE POLICE. Talk to your parents. The man obviously has issues. Sounds like a pedophile to me. You, can put a STOP to this. And you should.

You are 19 now. Don't you wonder what a 43 yr. old man would want with teenagers? How about to control you!! Sweetheart, his treats are not treasures. Do the right thing for all the girls out there. He may even be listed as a sex offender and you can find him on your computer.
I forgot what the website is called but, I'll bet you can just type in sex offender for ________ County. The county you live in, or he lives in. Call the police or have your parents do it.

Answer 4

Hi,

Ok first of all if i was 19 i wouldn't date a guy who is so much older then me yes age is not a big deal to some people but hey he has lived a life, you on the other hand are just learning about love, life and so on, if i was with a man who was talking to other girls and asking what they looked like etc,, i would be pissed for a start i would pack his stuff and tell him to go, i would then remind my self that i was a young, interesting person who has all the time in the world to find and meet other guys who would treat me the way i deserve to be treated!

Answer 5

Wow, sorry but it sounds like you are in a relationship with a pedophile. seriously. If i knew who you and he were, i'd report him. 43 AND DATED YOUR 14 YEAR OLD SISTER? thats effing sick. You need to let him know that you dont want a dirty old man and i would seriously consider turning him in. You never know if he IS actually hurting someone or forcing himself on young girls. Oh, im sure you'll say, "But he LOVES me and he would never mess around with a little girl." But that is exactly what he is doing. You are over the age of 18 now so he will probally try to find more young girls on the internet and get rid of you once he finds a 14 year old virgin. He will probally rape her, then tell her he loves her, and pretend like its normal for a 43 year old man to be effing a little girl.

Bottom line, hes got a serious problem and so do you. You need to cut him out of your life immediatly and report him to authorities. This isnt a game, its your life, and possibly the life of your little sister. I dont know you but i am crying now just thinking about how young and naive you are. PLEASE GET HELP.
For you, your sister, and all the little girls in the future that he will rape and control. If you need a friend, email me.
I care about you.

Answer 6

The guy is twisted and has an obsession problem. He probably is into child porn (dating minors is illegal) and is doing alot more than girlfriend knows about. I'd drop the S.O.B. and if there is any suspicion of illegal activity, for the sake of innocent victims, I'd report anything to the authorities and let them take it from there. I'd feel like a piece of trash if I stayed with him.

Answer 7

I'd say he's perverted, i'm not gonna blame anyone but why does he only go for young women, and why do the women tend to be with him, once or twice is uncommon but 3 people is really unusual.

Answer 8

i'd feel bad and disgusted and just sad. Why does he want to know how other pple look when he has me for a girlfriend? I would dump him immediately unless he can eplain himself
On the other hand, he was probably just mucking around for a laugh!

Answer 9

first of al why is a 19 yr. old dating a 43 year old. i am 19 my limit is 21. but i would break it off cuzz it seems like he is more interested in the 20 yr old then the 19 yr old.

Answer 10

i would feel that he is a pedifile (sp?) and i would get as far away from him as i possibly could!!!!! there is no reason a man of any age would ask a woman what she looked like "down there" unless he had plans on being with her!!!! he doesn't love or respect the person he is with and doesn't sound like he will ever be happy with one person....this girl deserves to be loved and respected and should dump him real fast!!!!!!

Answer 11

Sounds like a question for Jerry Springer.