I've been dating a woman for 5 years, we met online, had a long distance thing for a few yrs, and finally I have relocated to her State and moved in with her.
We have been living together for 6 months now, her friends have started hanging out at her house, she said they never did this until I moved in, well a few of her friends started making passes at me, and I ended up sleeping with 3 of her friends. I am starting to feel little bad about it, I dont want to tell her, but i think if i stop sleeping with her friends they will tell.... Buts its really getting hard to keep up with all of them plus my old lady,, any advice?
2006-11-06 00:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by MikeDONG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope you realize you are a jerk and this should STOP now! And hopefully someone will blow you in and she will throw you out on your butt!
2006-11-06 00:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You slept with THREE of them and you're JUST NOW starting to feel bad?
Gee...and now you're wondering "HOW" you're gonna manage this situation w/out your girl finding out and getting mad...you should've never done it in the first place dumbass...
If you really fear the consequences of an action, and you have a CHOICE in that action..it doesn't take a genius to figure maybe you shouldn't do it.
I don't have any advice for you and I don't feel sorry for you. I hope she DOES find out and kicks you outta HER house that she took you into. Maybe one of her s-l-u-t friends will take you in like the stray dog you are.
2006-11-06 08:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good Lawd, what a mess. You are feeling bad because your conscious is catching up with you and you know what your doing is oh so wrong!!!! If they are going to tell her, then maybe it's best you do it first, it's going to hurt no matter who it comes from. Maybe it's better coming from you. The fact you've slept with three friends, not one is going to be worse. She is going to be so pissed with you, but seriously dude, do you blame her? If my boyfriend did this to me, well what I would do to him, I can't write it here! It's going to be messy for a while, but maybe and hopefully, if you really love each other you might be able to work it out. Personally, she is going to be so mad, so if she does end up finding out, I would just leave her alone for a while, and let her come to you. If it's meant to be with you two, then it will be. Good luck dude!
2006-11-06 08:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW! dude just keep sleeping with all the chicks, think about it dude, if your girlfriend dumps you, you still got three chicks to go move in with.
And whats this about your old lady, 'cause that sounds a little gross man
2006-11-06 08:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her and just stop what you are doing and if they say anything then lie through your teeth, telling someone you cheated is very selfish.... It goes purely on your own guilt and wanting not to feel bad by just saying the wrong you have done...
2006-11-06 08:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a deposit, tell her the truth and move out . Because she is gonna kick you out man
2006-11-06 08:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, my dear are a dog. You need to find your own place and end the realtionship with her.
2006-11-06 08:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER she will sort of understand and if her friends tell it's really bad. And ya'll may break up!Talk to her she will understand and say u won't do it again
2006-11-06 08:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're an asshole mate and i bet im not the only person who hopes you get caught
2006-11-06 08:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lovely fantasy, wrong website.
2006-11-06 08:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋