There's a girl who is 20 and i'm 3 years younger. She did give me clue that we should get attach, but i'm just not ready. I don't want to lose her and i do know she really needs a bf. There's also another guy who is in his 20 and he likes her too. I don't want him to snatch away from me...Help...what do i do?
2006-11-06 00:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by Red Beret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are so selfish! you say you are not ready but you dont want the other guy to take her! when are you going to be ready? i mean she cannot wait for you forever. be ready and she will never be taken from you. so then if you are not ready, LET HER GO.
2006-11-06 00:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lorato m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth about how you feel and just move on to someone else who is on the same page as you. Or tell her you want to take it slow until your ready. If you rush into a relationship, you'll probably regret it, maybe. you must be selfish, and jealous if you dont want her into a serious relationship with you, but you don't want the other guy to take her, ONE advice-- make up your mind, or the other guy will take her.
2006-11-06 08:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Aneesa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what u say i can see u like her. and don't wanna lose her. but at the same time don't wanna have her. It's a paradox. try to clear your mind a little. maybe u r too young for a serious thing and if u involve with her things wil get worse. really try to live your boyish life dating and having short relationships untill u'll feel u wanna settle. life has it's course. it's your flirting period young boy. become a man and then find a woman!
2006-11-06 08:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by marianaadrianaioja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into a relationship. if she wants to be with you then she will go along with your pace. if you rush in you might find that its not what you really wanted and it could get messy. talk with her and let her know that you value what you share together right now. and that there may be a future for the two of you, but you want to take it slow.
2006-11-06 08:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by sickofmakinthemgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out with her, no one said u had to marry the girl just date her and see what happens, i have dated a bunch of girls and some girls i knew right from the start it wasn't going to last but it was still fun, and others have lasted quit a while
2006-11-06 08:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by armorefelix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall into it if ur not ready...be honest...n if ur made for each other...no one will snatch her away from u...
2006-11-06 08:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by kariz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for this obviously and not ready so don't do it!
2006-11-06 08:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
became her bf !!! whats the problem ? let this another boy get ****** in the *** and don't worry be happy, drink pepsi be sexy.
2006-11-06 08:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Arun K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. tell her the truth about how you feel. if she is worth it (which she probably is...) she will stay your friend, untill you are ready
2006-11-06 08:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either commit to her or lose her-it's pretty simple.
2006-11-06 08:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋