This life is ful of mysteries! What if after the first time she/he decides to dump you, you forgive, the emotions start all over again and then they wait until you open up, become so vulnerable and then they hit you where it hurts most, again? Can that stop you from going back or into another relationship? Not to someone who has feelings for others, people with sincerety in thier minds, they learn to live again!
2006-11-06 00:48:08 · 24 answers · asked by Eljose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont let them hurt you again.
2006-11-06 01:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody dumps someone for no reason. There's always a reason even if they don't tell you and if they don't have the bottle to tell you, then they didn't respect you very much in the first place.
No, no and no again! Don't take them back as you are obviously now a second choice to a hidden agenda. What/who ever you were dumped for in the first place, has gone pear shaped and you are the 'next best thing'. Don't do it, have some self respect and tell them where to go, and add for good measure that you don't have a reason for it!! ;-)
2006-11-06 09:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Number O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If dumped for no reason, then allowing the person to come back shows them they are in control and have the upper hand, giving them the power to come and go (or dump and come back) whenever they want. Don't give in, avoid the ex and get a new life. If you are so insecure that you take the ex back, then you deserve each other.
2006-11-06 08:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! An ex is an ex for a reason. If someone dumps you, for whatever reason, then get over them and get on with your life. There is absolutely no reason to ever go back to someone, especially someone who has been cruel to you or who has rejected you. An apology means exactly dick! Why open yourself up to being hurt again?
2006-11-06 08:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO I could never take anyone back. After they have made their decision. Then that is final. WHy allow them to come back ?? What has changed ?? If she left the don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord Split ya.
2006-11-06 08:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by JohnRingold 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A 2nd chance is one thing, a 3rd is foolish. Remember it will hurt worse second time around. And yes it can and probably will affect future relationships. Well as much as you allow it to anyway.
2006-11-06 10:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Georgie's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want her back? Do you not think that it will happen again? My Ex ran off with someone and when it cooled off, needed a place so she "wanted to try and work it out" don't let your heart rule here. Use your head.
2006-11-06 08:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People make decisions in their lives. Sometimes it is the right one, sometimes the wrong one.
Has no one on here never made a mistake?
To err is human, to forgive, divine!
Everyone deserves a second chance, no matter what it is they have done.
M.H.O
2006-11-06 13:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cuz he will just do the same thing again break up with u for either for a nother person or for no reason
THATS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME
I hate my ex he is a @$$hole
2006-11-06 08:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way...if they don't have the respect to give you a genuine reason for leaving you, then how will they ever respect you enough to be a decent partner?
2006-11-06 08:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by twinkletoestheballerina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way he dumped you and aftere you dumped him. Just let him go get someone better
2006-11-06 08:51:28 · answer #11 · answered by Hello 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋