This last weekend I found out that.. awhile ago my girlfriend got drink and.... did something that changed our relationship. Any ideas of what I should do? and before any of you say something, I still love her and no i'm not going to break up with her.
2006-11-06 00:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by vampire_ryooshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't plan to break up with her and you love her then why are you asking us for our opinion??? First of all your not even explaining what she did so how could we give you any ideas to help??? Your problem isn't too major if you can't share with us what really went down. You don't need any help here. Just get over it and stop asking questions that you really don't want an answer to.
2006-11-06 01:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you can do is talk to her. You dont want to end the relationship but you need to make her aware of how this changed the relationship. If you feel you can no longer trust her when she drinks then she needs to limit her alcohol intake when she isnt with you. Being drunk isnt an excuse for hurting the person you love.
2006-11-06 09:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love her than talk to her get her to understand how it made you feel and find out why she did it. then forgive her, put it out of your mind and move on. true love can stand the test of time. good luck and i hope you both can work threw it.
2006-11-06 08:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love means forgiving. tell her u dint like wht happened because things left to talking later are like wonds with no bandage, they become sore with time. talk to her mate. and tell her uv forgiven her but u dint like it. and be cool and relaxed
2006-11-06 09:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by AMIT G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u wont leave her how do you know she wont do it again, if ya'll have gotten past this then u need to put it behind her, "i'd rather be with you than mad at you" that phrase has gotten me through alot, good luck!!
2006-11-06 09:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IThen, why are you asking for, support?If you love her try to forget what she did, and ask her not to drink again.
2006-11-06 08:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by pelancha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already made up your mind. She now owns your sole.
2006-11-06 08:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about it
2006-11-06 08:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋