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2006-11-06 00:39:35 · 26 answers · asked by alex m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be scared just do it.
2006-11-06 01:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I know you're scared, and after reading most of these entries, I'm going to say most of the guys are right. Don't try to be romantic. Girls say that's what they like, but I've often seen one too many sweet guys thrown out because they're too "soft." Buying her roses is kind of intimate and suggests that you've been thinking about her for awhile. I think this would kind of scare her. Whatever you do, don't be cheezy, telling her how beautiful she is, etc. Don't try to be romantic like I said before. The best way to ask is just casually, be a goof ball if you want. Have confidence and go for it. Be like, "hey you, wanna go out sometime?" She just might say yes. If you're not comfortable with that though, just start out getting to know her first, make idle chit chat with her. Once she's comfortable with you, pop the question? "Hey dude, wanna see a movie friday night?" Put as little pressure on her as you can. Make it friendly and smooth. k? :) Best wishes. <3
2006-11-06 00:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by lilazngurly53146 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your scared for the right reasons. Do you know this girl? Does she know you?
Because it will be weird if some random girl came up to me trying to pick me up. She would have to be totally hot for me to accept. Same vice versa.
Dude, get to know her. Now thats where everyone differs. How do you approach? You figure that out. (But from everyone's post here, the general idea is get to know her and even her friends. Girls do ask other girls their opinion about a guy sometimes.) However don't use pick up lines and take cheezy actions. If you can pick a faker, then so can she.
Last, how well do you know youself? Your a type of guy worth going out with? What type of girl is she? She in your league? Figure this stuff out before you take action.
2006-11-06 00:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by EasyCheezyLemonPeachy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask her you will never get to go out with her, chances are shes waiting for you to ask her out. Whats the worst that can happen? If she says no at least you will know and you can move on with your life, but most likely she will say yes. wayhay.
Come on grow up and just ask her, life's to short to be scared of a situation like this. ask her right now...you can do it, good luck.
2006-11-06 00:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect to Diamond, do not do anything romantic.
Do not act like a wuss. Do not send a note or buy any gifts or you will lose her to the first guy with any stones at all.
If you can't, then you won't. But the definition of courage is facing your fear and doing it anyway.
Be a man and realize she might say no, but she might say yes.
Walk up to her and say "hey, want to hang out Saturday night?"
No pretense. Pure confidence. If she says no....then lick your wounds and move on. But if you are confident, she won't.
Report back to us!
2006-11-06 00:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just introduce yourself and get talking. If in a bar buy her a drink...after a lengthy conversation, tell her that you have enjoyed her company and would like to see her again.
Suggest going to the cinema or something...it would help you aviod using the word date.
Oh one final word of advice...don't try and put on an ego or be 'the man' it is such a turn off! Just act natural and freindly.
from a girl who is sick of egomaniacs!
2006-11-06 00:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! 100% go for it mate if u dont then u could end up regretting it as a friend of mine did he was afraid and now the girl he had a crush on is now engaged so he is regretting it
2006-11-06 07:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by scott C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst that can happen? She'll say no. And maybe point at you and laugh.
Ask her a favour, and tell her you need to borrow her for a date, and would she mind awfully. If it goes well on your not date, then you can admit the truth. If it goes pear shaped, you can say, well at least it isn't a real date, eh?!
2006-11-06 00:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be scared to ask her, the most she can say is "No" but if you ask her, it proves to yourself you've got the guts to ask someone, and proves you're a better man than most. if she says "No" then just brush it off and walk away, at the end of the day it doesn't matter if she says no, it doesn't hurt anyone, so go for it pal, My thoughts are with you!
2006-11-06 00:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you will never go out with her. Have fun with her in your dreams because unless you determine a date with her is worth the possible rejection then the only place you'll see her is in your dreams.
2006-11-06 00:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out. the next day tell a couple kids that you got a girlfreind and before long she will find out and forget all about it.
trust me i did it and now i'm going out with the girl i wanted to in the first place.
2006-11-06 00:43:29 · answer #11 · answered by chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋