Singles & Dating - 21 October 2006

There's a girl across the country, who I have texted for almost 3 years, and now I can't stop thinking about her. We used to talk all the time, and we would confide in one another. But now we fighht alot, and the recent one landed up with her getting rid of me. I am completely destroyed, and my friends tell me its my problem, what can I do?

2006-10-21 18:20:47 · 7 answers · asked by Ryan A 1

I have a boyfriend but I keep thinking about this guy I use to see. When I was seeing him he wasn't ready for a relationship, so we were just friends. Now it seems like he might be ready for a relationship and even though I am dating someone else now I really like him and miss him. My boyfriend is in another state and the long distance thing is tough. My friend is 5 minutes away which is probably why it's so appealing. I don't know what to do. I want them both but I know I can't have that. I also don't know how the friend would feel about having a relationship. We still talk but he knows I have a boyfriend so I can't see him. He seems sad when we talk and like he wants to see me, but I'm not sure if he wants a relationship or is just looking for a booty call. I'm so confused.

2006-10-21 18:19:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl this year at school!She is the complete opisite of me! And I think She is Bi too! How do I find out if she is without telling her I think I am? I really like her and I have never felt this way about anybody Guy or Girl? Is it wrong to be bi... Should I just give up on it and just stay completly straight???

2006-10-21 18:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Lost and Confused!!! 1

If you have a girl thats good in bed and beautiful and you say you like spending time with her and that you still like her so much, that even if u weren't sleeping with her you'd dream ofher, why don't you just date her yet you want to see other people? Why don't you do something about it?...weird

2006-10-21 18:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by coochie1 2

I met this girl this year at school!She is the complete opisite of me! And I think She is Bi too! How do I find out if she is without telling her I think I am? I really like her and I have never felt this way about anybody Guy or Girl? Is it wrong to be bi... Should I just give up on it and just stay completly straight???

2006-10-21 18:17:08 · 9 answers · asked by Lost and Confused!!! 1

are all push up bras patted?
if not how can i tell the diffrence?

2006-10-21 18:15:17 · 6 answers · asked by x_brunett4life_x 1

2006-10-21 18:12:56 · 9 answers · asked by fairy 1

my bf goes to another school but we r in the same grade so far every weekend ive hungout with him and idk if it will be able to last with us going to different schools. what do u think?

2006-10-21 18:11:39 · 13 answers · asked by :) * 1

2006-10-21 18:09:45 · 26 answers · asked by carly 1

ok now he said he loves me and we have made out and everyone keeps talking like hes going to ask me out... tonight he called me to see if i could hang out... but he has had so many chances to ask me out that idk if he ever will whats your take on this?

2006-10-21 18:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by jess 2

hey i have tried everything but he juss doesnt get it i told him i dontr lyke him in letters email all kinds of ways to tell a guy what else should i do to make him stop?!?!?

2006-10-21 18:05:18 · 19 answers · asked by monkey b 1

I am extremely happy with my boyfriend, I know he is my soul mate, the best thing that has ever happened to me. He has changed my life! So why do I still think about my old friend from years ago? It is not often, only occassionally. But when I do it is for a long period of time and then I become really angry and sad. I begin to miss him, and wonder if he remembers me or thinks about me, but then I get so mad because he can never compare to the love of my life now, and I think to myself, how could you possible waste your thoughts on him! This really bothers me because I never got the closure I needed. Do I think it's b/c he never admitted that he loved me back then? Am I just angry or could it be that I love him as well? or Perhaps, I just need closure? I am so confused.

2006-10-21 18:02:46 · 11 answers · asked by T 1

How can you love again after your heart has been broken in the worst way possible? How can you trust anyone with you heart and life again? How can you not be scared of being hurt by a guy again?

2006-10-21 18:01:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've approached this girl that I like 3 times now. The last time we were speaking about simple stuff like what class you headed too and stuff. Then I asked if she had a locker partner, she seemed a little shocked. I was like ah I was just wondering my locker buds keep messing with my stuff. I've lost two books already and had to pay for em and so on.

ANYWAYS, she was talking with a group fo friends the other day about this. It so happens my sister was in that group. She had said. "This guy had asked me to be his locker buddy the other day and I hardly know em"

Now she doesn't know it's my sister. But she's seen me with my sister a couple times. What does it mean for her to bring that up like that in front of someone I knew?

She's not the type of person who brags, she's really shy and I honestly don't think she knows any guys at my High School. She's from out of town. She's been in the city for a good 2 years I think now? But is really quiet. Please no answers like, "Move on"

2006-10-21 18:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you ever find yourselves attracted to asian guys such as koreans, chinese, japanese, filipinos etc

2006-10-21 17:59:45 · 7 answers · asked by linko9789 1

better or worse????

2006-10-21 17:58:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

and was it by accident?
did u equat it to fate? like say for example u never intended this person to be the one. but one day, out of the blue.......etc.

2006-10-21 17:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been trying to get her to let me do her in the A**. she wont let me. when we do it doggystyle sometimes I wet my thumb and just mess around with it and she starts with these moans like she likes it but then tells me to stop after a little bit. I have also licked it while eating her out and that really gets her going but again tells me to stop (I know I am a freak). What the heck I can definitely tell that she likes it, but she wont let me finish and just try it out. I have never done a girl in the A** before but heard it is awesome. Ladies let me know if you let someone do this and if you were like my girl before and did you like it? what do i do to get her to let me try it? Guys have you done this before is it that good? I tell her some girls would be mad for wasting my freakyness....lol....and no I wont let her do this to me....i know someone will get smart and ask that so there is the answer

2006-10-21 17:55:11 · 14 answers · asked by The Man 2

I am plannng to make a visit to a city soon and i wrote to this guy who lives there & known for 5 years. We used to date eachother on and off and didnt have a serious relationship. Both of us are single and free still and were keeping in touch constantly thru email. last i saw him was when he visited my city 2 years ago. he then said to visit him if i happen to be around and now that i am going to be in that city i mailed him and - he is silent?? I dont understand??

2006-10-21 17:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by sash30 1

So I have seen many posts about what girls like. the say honesty all that stuff and that looks are not the most important it is personality and such. I an an average looking guy, I think I am a nice guy (almost to a doormat type nice), I will admit I am a geek ( like like video games, tech stuff, anime, ect) and I am a social recluse (Don't like large groups, I like quiet beaches home, dinners out ect). so how is it that it is darn near impossible to meet a girl, and when I do you get the line of "I don't want to ruin the friendship" that line is almost worse than a flat out rejection :P anyhow, just wanted some thoughts from the ladies on this. thanks

2006-10-21 17:54:25 · 20 answers · asked by daggermouth 3

Need some advice. I'm into this girl, but she has a b/f who is my friend though we're not really really close friends. Anyway, I think his girl is throwing messages my way, but I'm not sure. We get along great, we have same tastes in music, things of interests, philosophy, just overall she's really easy to talk to. The girl and I didn't become friends until after she starting going out with my friend about 3 years ago. Within the past year though, we've chatted more and have gotten to know each other especially in the last several months. We tend to look at each other alot, and she always seem to stand really close to me intimately. We haven't hung out that much for her to be that comfortable around me. Overall she is pretty proper and reserve with people, but with me she's just really open. I think she is confused about her feelings as there are mix messages, but more positives than negatives. She's talkative, but gets really quiet when I talk about other girls.

2006-10-21 17:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Hav 1

2006-10-21 17:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

girls seem to just hit on every one of my mates all the time, i never get it. i do realise that im not good looking, but i would have thought that by now a bit of luck would have come my way. people have said "be patient, she will come" but ive been waiting 21 years, and still have not had a gf, and had maybe 1 or 2 that have ever taken a liking to me more than friends (i was not attracted to these girls at all). i have a lot of guy friends, but on the girl front, seem to be running dry. girls say they like confidence, but every time i get rejected my confidence goes down, and therefore i get rejected even more it seems. i am 21, a virgin, never had a girlfriend, and i have no real explanation for it. i have been battling depression since early 2004 (when my father was diagnosed with cancer, then later passed away) and this just adds to it. i dont even feel like i have a real purpose anymore, and that its already the beginning of the end. how can i change the way i think?

2006-10-21 17:49:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do they need to contact each other? She is remarried w/one child. Does this mean he cant get over her?

2006-10-21 17:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by txsoccerluver 1

i told her i like her. i asked her how she felt / feels, her reply was i dont know. i realy like her and i dont think she know that. Its hurts me a lot. pls any1, any advice

2006-10-21 17:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by CodeNameTube 1

I am 29 and he is 47. He is hot but lives with his girlfriend and her son, doing the family thing.

Would it be wrong to interfere with his life like that or should I be selfish and go for it?

2006-10-21 17:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by tomboy 1

I meet this woman online we been talking for a few months, and she being asking me to come and meet her, she lives in another state? Dose that mean she want to get serious, or just have fun?

2006-10-21 17:48:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last Sunday I told this girl that I've been crazy over for the past 3 years how I felt. I told her how I think she is perfect, beautiful on the outside and absolutly amazing on the inside. I never thought I would ever have a chance with her because she could get any guy that she wanted, but I decided to go for it.

She told me that she didn't want a relationship in her senior year and that it wasn't because of me that she didn't, she said that its everyone. I don't feel like that's a lie, but I don't think it's a good enough answer.

I feel like this girl is the one. I feel like it doesn't matter where we go to college or who we meet, that if it's right, if it meant to be, then we make it work. I tolf her that and she really didn't say anything.

I've written out this long letter about how I feel. About how I think she's the one. How I think that every girl says that they will go to college and then meet the right guy and they never do. Telling her that she's looking at the

2006-10-21 17:44:13 · 26 answers · asked by radchad25 2

well theres this boy that i like and i think he like me.well i only knew him for alittle while but we have a lot in common and hes really cute.well to start off he always say im cute and be touching on me.he ask me so many strange question like what would my mom say if i had a boy friend?he always staring at me and he told my bestfreind that he likes me (but not asked me out yet)!and he knows i like hime to. hes flirting got me confused.what should i do?and if i was to ask him out it would fell funny

2006-10-21 17:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by because of you 2

i like this girl but im not sure if she likes me back.
she knows i like her.
her friends say she likes me and i should ask her out.
what should i do

2006-10-21 17:43:16 · 19 answers · asked by genegamer 1