why is it that so many men just cant handle fatherhood and screw everything up why cant they just grow up?

Answer 1

Broad brush strokes there... However, some never had a good example of a father. In some senses, they don't have an example of a real man, either.

Answer 2

It's not a matter of growing up. its a matter of education. Girls tend to be taught family things from the time they are very young even elementry school. they allways play with dolls and dress them and take care of them. They watch their moms taking care of her hamily duties and if you had a little brother or sister the girl will want to help take care of the baby. Men though watch their dads and their sports heros. I never saw my dad change a diaper. For men growing up, they wern't really taught all the family stuff girls are. They would much rather be on the football team than in the HomeEc learning how to cook. Unfortunately schools segragate boys and girls this way and I know it sucks and some schools aren't as bad as they used to be. So if you meet a guy and he has no clue how to raise a baby, it's not his fault. He just doesn't have any experiance in that area.

I agree with darlene too. There are lots of examples of women who can't handle motherhood. Like the women who pushed her car into a lake with both her kids inside a few years back.

Answer 3

Men will always be boys. Being a father is one of the scariest things a man will ever hear. They have the responsibility for a tiny human being they created. They know that every decision they make can affect that life they created, so the easiest thing to do is run away from the problem before it causes more they can't handle. Men will never grow up. You can take a male out of childhood, but you can't take the child out of the male. Being a kid is so easy and being an adult is difficult so growing up is not an option for them.

Answer 4

Because they are selfish deadbeat pukes who want to have the fun of making the babies but aren't willing to lift a finger to help. After all, you have to have cash so you can go out and make some more.

Jail the deadbeats? You bet. With a "snip job" required to be released.

Answer 5

For the same reason why alot of woman can not handle motherhood and cant grow up.Some people from both sex`s should not be parents.

Answer 6

mens sole purpose is to have sex not kids

its a natural reaction

if I was going to have kids I would not include a man except for the sperm.

men never grow up

little boys is all they will ever be

Answer 7

because most men are jerks they don't wont to deal with the responsibility of having kids they don't want to give up hanging with friends or going out or their money they used to buy them things. and some don't want to grow up. so they decide to be jackasses and go out on night and hang out with friends instead of spending time with their kids. and you have no choice but to live and take care of your kids yourself and make sacrifice for your kids while the dumb *** is doing nothing for them.

Answer 8

i dont know this if true scientifically speaking but i have observed some truth in this idea shared to me by an older female friend. she once told me, that when im looking for someone to date, date someone older than myself, someone who has already achieved something in his life and career, that way when we marry, he will be very supportive of my ideas and take care of me and the children well, since he already had his share when he was younger. i have observed that older guys are very responsible, thoughtful and caring. their hapiness is dependent on the hapiness of their love ones. maybe older guys are easy to deal with, one reason is that you deal with someone whos brain has already matured. they say if you date someone your age, the guys brain and experience is equivalent to that of someone 6 yrs younger than you. so to have a better chance of a successful relationship, date someone 6 yrs older than you. i dont know with you, but as for me this works.

Answer 9

That is a good question, I have asked myself that many many times!!