I met this girl this year at school!She is the complete opisite of me! And I think She is Bi too! How do I find out if she is without telling her I think I am? I really like her and I have never felt this way about anybody Guy or Girl? Is it wrong to be bi... Should I just give up on it and just stay completly straight???
2006-10-21 18:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Lost and Confused!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"BI" as you put it is not abnormal, especially in women or girls. If you are CURIOUS, that is not BI....it can only mean you want to "check out the same sex" but NOT have a long term relationship.
I have always been a "wear your feeling on your sleeve gal" and would have to offer the advise of going with your heart. What's the WORST thing that could happen? She tells you she's not interested? She likes guys ONLY? That doesn't mean that you don't connect with her.
Also, sometimes gals are attracted to OTHER gals becasue they see qualities that they like...that they want for themselves....that a compliment to HER.
Really though you just have to sepnd time with her and let your friendship grow....trust and friendship. There's nothing wrong with telling her that you think you may be BI, without making a pass at her or offending her. If she is she is......you will know.
Good luck and I send confetti of "no confusion" to you!
2006-10-21 18:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are a male or female go for it there is nothing wrong with being BI intact I am proud to say I am a Bisexual. go after her and figure it out.
2015-03-31 17:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Emery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try to relaxed approach, get to know her, be her friend, and THEN figure out what you want to do to/with her?
She could be right or just sooo wrong for you. So take it easy and don't go rushing into things, that's how most regrets are started. In due time she could open up, tell you her deepest darkets secrets, and there you go. You could have it figured out so wrong, but if you give it time, you'll know exactly where she stands, and save yourself embarrasment or anything worse.
2006-10-21 18:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not actually a choice that you can make for yourself....
I know, I know.... it seems like a choice by the way the politicians talk about it but psychologically speaking, your sexuality is not entirely under your control.... only your actions are.
So you can't choose who you love - only the way you act when you are around them. Therefore, if you are bisexual - then there is no right or wrong about it.... you just are.
You can choose to be with a man or a woman -
but if you follow your heart then your heart gets to choose.... not your brain or your friends or parents.
2006-10-21 18:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by rabble rouser 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothin wrong with being bi cause god made you the way you are. if you have any strong feelings that you think she then maybe if you get close wit her just ask her don't be afraid to be who you really are. the worst thing she can do is say no there is always someone out there for you
2006-10-21 18:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change being bi. It's just the way you were born. Just go for the girl if you want her. If it doesn't work out, there are plenty of other girls (and guys) out there.
2006-10-22 05:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong to be bi. Just be true to your heart and don't change for anyone but yourself.
2006-10-21 18:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever is best for you. If you pursue her, it's not any different than any other relationship as far as the rules go. Just be yourself, be honest, and be trustworthy and see where it goes. Good luck whatever you decide to do.
2006-10-21 18:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not incorrect. i'm bi myself and there is not any longer something incorrect with liking the two genders. you won't be able to help who you like. it is the two your acquaintances are bowled over and want time to technique that your bi, they do no longer help the belief or there no longer gentle with it. My suggestion is to wait for somewhat and see what occurs. although if it is already been a on a similar time as and that they nevertheless do no longer decide for to hold out with you, then there no longer actual acquaintances. acquaintances ought to continually be there for you, or perhaps nonetheless a number of them won't be there for you in the commencing up they ought to continually bounce back and assist you via fact they love you. once I got here out to my 2 ultimate acquaintances they have been great supportive and that made me greater suitable than chuffed.
2016-10-02 13:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by fritch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi ok if you are female (that's a turn on) male not so good stay straight if you are male
2006-10-21 18:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by ccrider4u 2 · 1⤊ 8⤋