I got myself thinking ALL OVER AGAIN, Did I really creep her out? What Does this mean?

Question

I've approached this girl that I like 3 times now. The last time we were speaking about simple stuff like what class you headed too and stuff. Then I asked if she had a locker partner, she seemed a little shocked. I was like ah I was just wondering my locker buds keep messing with my stuff. I've lost two books already and had to pay for em and so on.

ANYWAYS, she was talking with a group fo friends the other day about this. It so happens my sister was in that group. She had said. "This guy had asked me to be his locker buddy the other day and I hardly know em"

Now she doesn't know it's my sister. But she's seen me with my sister a couple times. What does it mean for her to bring that up like that in front of someone I knew?

She's not the type of person who brags, she's really shy and I honestly don't think she knows any guys at my High School. She's from out of town. She's been in the city for a good 2 years I think now? But is really quiet. Please no answers like, "Move on"

Answer 1

Maybe she was trying to figure out if you liked her! What if you tell her to forget the locker-buddy thing (maybe explain what happened with your current one) and ask if you can walk with her to class, carry her books - you know - old fashioned stuff.

Answer 2

Go right up to her and ask, "Why did you tell my sister that I asked you to be my locker buddy?". The way it sounds, you never asked her that. Maybe she just said it to add a flair into her life. Then keep up with the conversation and right your intended conversation. Tell her you never asked her and you're sorry if she took it the wrong way. That way it straightens out the mess. Then when you end the conversation tell her she'll be the first one you'll ask if the problem continues with your missing stuff, if it's alright with her. Then just go from there.

Answer 3

Have you every considered if you may be a homosexual? I have never heard of a straight guy worry about touching a girls bum and a nice kiss for 2 years... there must be something else thats bothering you man. cause people dont just 'let' others kiss them when they dont want it. and why the hell would she have low self esteem? im thinking you do. get over this and evaluate the real problem- why does kissing a woman bug you? there are much deeper issues here

Answer 4

It sounds like she might not be all that interested in you but that shouldn't stop you. You should keep the conversation going and stay friendly. Shy people can get nervous around people easily. The more you talk to her, the closer she will come to letting down her guard.

If she doesn't respond or does something completely rude such as ignore you, then you know she isn't interested.

Answer 5

A locker is a place where you put personal stuff. You don't want to share it with strangers because you don't know if they will steal from you or something.
That was a little creepy, because it sounded like you wanted to invade her private space and have access to her stuff.

Answer 6

hello i think the reason that she did it was a way of let you know that she not comforable with you wanting to share locker.sometime we women can't be straight to the point so we use out. don't take it hard in the next time you see her let her know that you still are friends in no hard feelings

Answer 7

u didn't creep her out she probably likes u but uses her actions as a way of hiding it from your sister and her friends

Answer 8

Maybe she's just mistaken? You can tell her how you feel for her.

Answer 9

uh...sorry, but move on

Answer 10

i dun know wut else to say but

"Move on"