How can you love again after your heart has been broken in the worst way possible? How can you trust anyone with you heart and life again? How can you not be scared of being hurt by a guy again?
2006-10-21 18:01:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you need to take some time off and learn about you again. I wouldn't jump into something too soon or you or the other person will be in for a serious hurt. Time is a wonderful thing that heals a lot of wounds.
Look at it this way. You can't possibly give someone your heart if you don't know what your heart is about in the first place. Take time and do stuff you like then you'll meet the person of your dreams.
2006-10-21 18:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jeromy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be patient with yourself. Don't worry if it takes a while to be comfortable again. Start off by being friends with guys, and do not expect to become romantically involved. Keep in mind though that not every guy is the same, just like not all girls are the same.
If you feel that it's taking too long to trust again, or that your distrust is having a negative impact upon your life, consider seeing a therapist or counsellor for help working through it.
2006-10-22 01:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by zandyandi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because you know that someone out there is WORTHY of your love!
Being hurt in the worst possible way means that you feel that he is not worth of your love.
You risk and trust again because you wanted to search for the worthy person.
Deep in our hearts, we know that it is worth risking for.
The idea that you will be loved again by someone, is all worth the pain, scars and mistrust!
We just have to go all these things! Nothing is impossible yet the best things is not the easiest to find!
2006-10-22 01:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by jayp 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not love This is Lust. Love is not always in search of love partner.
The best way of doing love again is....just do it without thinking
2006-10-22 01:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by awais h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your heart will always have scar tissue, but you can love and trust again. Don't give up.
2006-10-22 01:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU JUST HAVE TO TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME. SOMETIME
WHEN YOU HURTING YOU FEEL THAT YOU WILL NEVER
LOVE AGAIN. BUT YOU WILL , DONT GIVE UP ON LOVE
SO HANG IN THERE AND YOU WILL SEE THAT WHEN YOU
LEAST EXPECT IT YOU WILL LOOK UP AND YOU WILL
SEE BEAUTY OF RAINBOW. BUT LIKE ANY THING ELSE
IT WILL TAKE TIME. BUT YOU WILL KNOW WHEN YOU
READY TO MOVE ON. GOOD LUCK .
2006-10-22 01:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
for me it came as a big shock but when i realised then someone knew came along and he just took all the pain away
2006-10-22 01:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A heart can heal, Love everyone and everyone will love you.
2006-10-22 01:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by stucknthird 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont punish all for the mistakes of one. love like you have never been hurt.
2006-10-22 01:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by jmj 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you're just being confuse.... take a deep breath and try to relax. think it over. consult your family or friend. ^_^
2006-10-22 01:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by mickay_k 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋