I met this girl this year at school!She is the complete opisite of me! And I think She is Bi too! How do I find out if she is without telling her I think I am? I really like her and I have never felt this way about anybody Guy or Girl? Is it wrong to be bi... Should I just give up on it and just stay completly straight???
2006-10-21 18:17:08 · 9 answers · asked by Lost and Confused!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In our country, everyone loves to be put in a box...or to put others in one. Why can't you be attracted to both men and women? Why do you have to choose straight or bi? There is nothing wrong with what you are feeling. As we grow, experience different people & situations, our preferences will change. In 5 years you maybe attracted to only women...in another 15, you may be more attracted to men...and then to both equally again. The same thing happens with straight people...lets say a girl in high school is attracted to hot, popular jock type boys in school, then to frat boys in college. Ten years later, she's attracted to a more humble, laid back career/family men. Then again at 40, she wants someone to go bungee jumping & sky diving with her. It doesn't mean you're confused, it doesn't mean you're whorish, it doesn't mean anything accept you're following your gut and your preferences. First, start out as her friend...as you hang out more, talk on the phone more, and get to know each other better, you will find out. I say go for it, be confident, and have fun...
2006-10-21 18:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Breezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says it's wrong? I am perfectly fine with it.
Good question on the figuring out other people whether they are bi though.. or lesbian.. Ive always wondered..
the only thought I have is to spend time with them and gain some trust,.. then ask one of those "have you ever considered being with girls? it seems like that is the new fad.." or something of that nature..
2006-10-22 01:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by senacia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being bi.. you should know for yourself if
you're strait or bi.. I'd say give it a shot and see how things work out. Im available if you gurls plan on having a threesome.
2006-10-22 01:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be who you are and enjoy your life in a safe and productive manner. Take her to an event such as a play or art function hosted in the gay part of town. Maybe you just enjoy the play, maybe you will find out in conversation.
2006-10-22 01:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing being wrong with being bi, the easiest way to not expose yourself would be to somehow wander onto the conversation of bi's and what she thinks of them and such. if she is cool with them or not you can eventually tell her, do not hide who you are. there is nothing wrong with you being bi, it is who you are and that is just fine
2006-10-22 01:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a hot chick, being bi is cool. But if your a guy, your just disgusting.
2006-10-22 01:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by B. Miller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your still at school you should be getting a education not thinking about getting with a girl or boy you have plenty of time to worry about that when you grow up
2006-10-22 01:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should stay straight. Unless you feel you are gay, then you should pray about it, and make the right decision of staying celibate.
2006-10-22 01:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by LadyL 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
embrace what you are, theres no point in hinding from the truth, be proud and love yourself
2006-10-22 01:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋