Other - Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

i am surrounded with married people telling me one minute that they are happy being married but in the next minute ;it'll change and they say that they actually desperately miss being single...AND before i manage to say or have an opinion on anything else ,they will say that being married is ok again...one friend even said that she hates me for being single...i do not even know how to react to that statement...
i believe that either you are married or single.all of us has our ups and down moments.just so happens that i am still single.AND LOVING IT!!!

but really?what is the problem???

2007-05-14 23:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by faris j 6

if he or she

2007-05-14 23:25:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do about someone you work with says he's in love with you when you don't feel the same and have told him so, but he still keeps inquirying believing I'll eventually change my mind.

2007-05-14 23:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by bb 2

I don't know why, but men make me nervous. I panic inwardly if I have to be alone with one- even my uncles or a doctor.
If I'm on a walk and a man is casually on his own I just want to bolt for home.
What's my problem and how can I get over it?
I've never been, you know, abused or anything. My dad is/was/ has been an unreliable emotional sinkhole. He did leave very out of the blue and slammed the family with a completely unexpected divorce.
But I don't know why that would make me afraid of guys.
Any ideas? Suggestions?

2007-05-14 23:18:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 23:17:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i started dating this girl alittle while ago and we got along great. everything was perfect and she made me feel soo good. she made me happy and made me want to be a better person. we dated for about a month and she went on a road trip with one of my freinds and came back likeing him. the day after she broke up with me she came to me crying saying that she still wants to be with me. then she went ot my friends house to talk to him about it and she told me it would be better if we were just friends. she dated him for awhile and then broke up. she came back to me asying that he was everything that i told her he was. i abouslutly love this girl...i dont know why i just do...thats all i know and i want to know if i should tell her how i feel about her?

2007-05-14 23:01:10 · 13 answers · asked by tryin_tofindabalance 1

someone tel me why?

2007-05-14 22:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by deyhorlah 1

2007-05-14 22:25:49 · 25 answers · asked by arunpmk i 1

most of the people around me fall in love with there dream girl

i am really missing the joy of love marriage

2007-05-14 21:34:06 · 2 answers · asked by coolspy 1

I have been working at he same company for 3 years now and I am tired of it. I feel that I need a change but because my manager is going on leave I dont wanna give in my resignation letter until she returns (2 weeks from tomorrow). What can I do to keep acting like I am fine in the job when its pretty much clear I hate it? Its boring.... I learn nothing new. I developed this "I dont give a damn" attitude when I am here and its so unlike me. So while I am looking for a new job... any tips you can give to help me keep my sanity? Thanks in advance.

2007-05-14 20:56:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 years old. I moved away from home at 18. I have made some bad choices that got me in some sticky situations. I have since put my life on the right track and am doing well. I got married, I am in college (my career will pay between 30 and 50$ per hour) And I am taking good care of my children and myself. But my family has continued to be negative about every decision I make. For example, when I found out it was going to take me an extra two years to finish school, they insisted I quit and just "get a job" like a normal person! They think I am spending too much time in school. But it doesn't end there!!! How can i get them to be more positive towards me and my siblings?

2007-05-14 19:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by trehuginhipee 4

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2007-05-14 19:02:51 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2

he is 60 yrs old. i m having affaire with him , just 4 my financial needs! i m 25F. i want 2 get more money n big financial benfits frm him. frm last 8 months i m having relation with him! now he is totally involve in me ( sexually & emmotionaly).
i want 2 use his emmotions, wht 2 do???

2007-05-14 18:50:14 · 13 answers · asked by S.S 1

On the surface, I know I've accomplished a lot. I'm 24 now, I was in the army during which time I served a deployment. I saved my money from the Army and invested it, so I could pay off my college debts. Last week I just got a BA degree with honors from a good university, and I've been accepted to grad school in the fall, so my future looks bright.

However, a lot of my friends (girls and guys) are getting married and/or starting families. I don't even have a girlfriend, and haven't had one for months. To me, this seems like such a huge failure that overshadows everything else. Sometimes I think I would trade everything if I just had one. It usually doesn't bother me, but sometimes (like tonight) when I go to bed alone, I feel like such a loser. Is this normal?

2007-05-14 18:28:49 · 13 answers · asked by redguard572001 2

Honestly?

2007-05-14 17:36:17 · 2 answers · asked by MavEllie 3

what should i do about my bestfriend who has a boyfriend and she always talks about issues to his boyfirned that don't need to be told, it always makes things worse when his boyfriend joined the issue. for example, we have a war with my boyfriend and i told my bestfriend about our war, she also told this to his boyfriend, which makes things worse again, and it affect my relationship with my boyfriend and bestfriend

2007-05-14 17:30:20 · 1 answers · asked by honey_106 2

2007-05-14 15:39:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

foreplay down their, helps to provide a better orgasm. My husband and I were both virgins before we got married. We are learning, as we go along. Picked up a book, for him - to teach him how to perform orally down their for me. The book is called
"The Lowdown on Going Down: How to give her mind-blowing oral sex." We had never dated anyone before we started dating one another. How do I bring up to him that I want oral sex? How do I go about giving this book to him ? It is awkward. Thanks for all the help.

Please NO answers from men please.

Thank You.

2007-05-14 15:07:02 · 3 answers · asked by c t 1

I'm 20, a guy and still a virgin. Its nothing serious I just have really had the "opportunity" come my way. But I'm very much fine with that. I kind of consider myself greatful actually. But it this soceity I'm a freak. Why? I've seen what sex can do to a person. Look around at are culture. For so much people losing their virginity make them turn into Jeykell and Hyde. I was watching something on TV and saw a bunch of people taking an HIV test and they looked terrified at what their the results might be. But sitting there kind of laughing. I got nothing to worry about. I'm not getting anyone pregnant, no ones getting an abortion because of me and not infected with HIV or Aids. Im not using anyone and I'm being used. If anything looking around sex is a bit of a turn off. So why are people like me considred freaks. Is it fair?

2007-05-14 14:23:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know what happens to me

2007-05-14 14:16:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 17 and have only kissed like 3 times. Somebody told me that I kiss to fast and looked like I was sucking the persons face! Every since then I have been very insecure when it comes to kissing. I get really nervous when I am going with a boy and I know I have to kiss them. What can I do to improve my kissing? I am kinda shy around guys also.

2007-05-14 13:22:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would she see

2007-05-14 12:43:20 · 1 answers · asked by oobedoo 1

37 yrsld/m 54yrsld/F
I Have been intimate with a woman on three seperate occasions, I have taken her from xxx a to z and back again because I enjoy our times spent together, I have other responsibilities and they do not afford me the time nor the emotional energy to invest full time into a relationship.

I have explained this time and time over, and each time she understands til we xxx again. I am not confused ladies the lovin' is great and the no strings attached part was the best, I say was because It already seems as if she's broken the agreemet.
We entered this knowing all that I have expressed as regards the arrangement.
Yet now I am thinking its time to move on. But I seriously don't want to leave any emotional discomfort behind.

2007-05-14 12:33:19 · 18 answers · asked by Aware 2

I have a 19 year old son that lives with me that has major anger and aggression problems. He lived with his father who is an alcoholic for a long time. We are divorced. Everyone keeps telling me to kick this kid out. He has a job but no car.. and no way to get to work but me. He is verbally abusive to me . Im at the END of my rope. My kids have gotten me kicked out of my home because of their behavior. This kid has no where to go. I feel responsible. But yet IM angry too. Im afraid if I kick him out he will commit suicide. I cant call the cops when he is aggressive as that is what got me kicked out of my home . The neighbors were upset with all the police calls. I work hard.. Im studying for a real estate license. Im in the process of selling this house and just got laid off. IM readyto crack. Any suggestions?

2007-05-14 12:20:44 · 3 answers · asked by Vicki m 3

Well to make long story short I met a guy a while back this year through a friend and we danced at the club. We instantly were attracted to one another. He asked my friend about me but was kinda turned off by the fact that I was a virgin. (Im 20 and waiting till marriage). Well i guess u could say he fell out of liking me and met someone else. I too met someone else. HE is a great guy and hes like no hter guy Ive ever met.Hes basically my dream guy. Well the other guy, the one I danced with at da club, well he has kissed me before and he mnetioned that on myspace on a pic comment. I always wonder why he does that and I find myself flirting wit him again and I get soooo atttacted to him again but then I feel bad becuz of this other guy Ive been seeing which truly is a good man. Well why is this other guy throwing the time we kissed in my face?? What does he want from me. Is he still attracted??

2007-05-14 10:07:06 · 1 answers · asked by deanda 3

I am 49 years old and just dont want anymore kids! Will I be breaking church doctorine if I do this?

2007-05-14 09:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by Steven M 1

no fair!

2007-05-14 08:56:40 · 21 answers · asked by bananas! 3

can love last without sacrifise

2007-05-14 08:49:25 · 19 answers · asked by rsrmrr 1

He knows that i know about it and that i don't really approve..
i am worried about him as he smokes it on quite a regular basis.. i just want to tell him to stop but am worried that it may affect our relationship.. seen as im not going out with him ..

We are friends but i wouldnt say extremely close.

How should i tell him?? Should i say anything at all ??

2007-05-14 08:29:35 · 13 answers · asked by rothers 3

I am fighting to get my kid's back from cps .. .. And i am and have been doing everything they ask of me i am going back through treatment cause of a relapse i had 10 month's clean and only drank once i feel like i am fighting a looseing battle it seem's like the more i do and complete the more they have for me to do i just need answer's please anyone that can help contact me ...

2007-05-14 07:14:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous