I have had a high-school sweetheart, on-off relationship for almost 3 years now. I feel very much in love, and perfectly content with my girlfriend.
But I have begun having problems being monogamous, when I want to be. I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend, however I have ex's asking for more and cannot resist considering them.
I've tried finding help on infidelity and polyamorous relationships but everything seems inclined towards support them (unless its religious-based... I'm atheistic).
I can't seem to just ignore these temptations but I cannot give in to them....
So,
Any advice/experiences/help you can give? Is there anyway to survive this?
I feel I should discuss this with my girlfriend, should I?
Please dont answer with "just dont because its immoral" because the male instinct overrides that in a second, please give helpful advice/experiences.
2007-05-15
15:42:36
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