What do you think ?

Question

i am 18 and in my first year at university , i am doing a bachelor commerce and i hate it so much , well bascially i hate University but i only doing it for my mum because she wants me to have " a good future" she says. i am getting realy bad grades and i feel like i am wasting my mother money that she sweats for everyday .i am going to uni but i dont really know what i want to do career wise and i am not happy as well . the thing is that i moved from home (UK ) to come here in Australia to go to uni and i really feeling home sick even though its been 5 months . i really feel traped because i dont know what to do , i have tryed talking to a counsellor at uni but it didnt help . i cant drop out because of my mum and i dont what her to feel even more stressed out now beacuse she is having a hard time and she so stressed out because my mum has just found out that my dad was cheating for 2 years and she calls crying and she is 50 . i dont know what to do with my life right now

Answer 1

Frist off relax. Second is that you need to spend a little time figure out what your purpose in life is. Yea its not easy. It takes time, research, and some understanding of yourself. Understand some people never get to that point. Second you need to start seeing how your doing this for yourself, if not your going to fail your mum. Get over your insecurities, be strong, and move forward. Take advantage and understand that you can make this right if you do the leg work to make it work......