Other - Family & Relationships - 15 May 2007

I have been debating with myself whether or not I should report someone to child protective services. I was hoping if I gave ya'll some insight you might be able to help me make my choice. I know a man who has no problem staying up all night long and doing cocaine while his daughter sleeps in the next room. I also know for a fact that his daughter has seen him having sex with at least a couple different women. He has brough several different girls into his daughter's life in the past year and sees no problem with it. I also know for a fact that he drives drunk with her in the car and also has done cocaine on his armrest while his daughter sleeps in the back seat.

I want to report him to social services but I don't want him to know it was me and come after me. He's hurt me physically before and I'm scared.

I know he needs to be reported but I'm really scared of what he'll do to me. He's tried to get me fired from my job several times, etc.

2007-05-15 09:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

if we are suppose to know its love when its love, then y do we think its love most of the time, with atleast half of our serious relationships.right? then what? we spent all those years with something we thought was love and wasnt...so then does love wait and we find it when we are 40? when we really wanted it at 20....

2007-05-15 09:33:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, Me and my boyfriend live together and I was cleaning one day and found a piece of paper sticking out of his wallet. I looked @ it and wasnt sure who it was ( he has broken my trust about 7 or 8 times so I had a right to do this! ) I *67ed the number and it blocked me which means it had to be a home number and not a cell..He later told me his boss told him to call him if he ever slept in again..i believed him. He slept in this moring and so tonight I asked if he called his boss and he said no that he was off and it wasnt his work number it was his cell phone number. I told him him it couldnt be b/c it blocked my number and he got pissed and ignored me until he fell asleep. I looked up the number ( me and my b/f go to a state college ) and it was someone about 4 hours away. So Im wondering if he could of been talking to a girl that went 2 college here and went back home for the summer and thats her home number. Seems sorta weird that his 'bosses' house is 4 hours away and the #...

2007-05-15 09:24:22 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 1

Where is there a section where you can go to ask questions about SEX?

2007-05-15 09:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by rosem_07663 2

2007-05-15 08:46:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy is from our past and we WERE all friends - but recently (3+ years) he has been avoiding me to meet her almost an hours drive from Austin where he lives/works. She has been trying to meet him for lunch every second week. I don't think there is anything romantic going on - just feels weird that she would want to go all this way to spend time with someone who wont spend time with us as a family. Should I be concern?

2007-05-15 08:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I have had this ''online relationship'' with this guy who is homeschooled and lives 35 minutes away from me.;] We have met like.. a year ago, and we go to concerts together sometimes, and we don't really talk in person, although i try so hard. Anyways, i told him that i loved him, and he claimed that he loved me back. So, we started to build on this each day. 2 Friday's ago.. he hooks up with my LITTLE cousin who is 2 years younger than me. My heart was shattered. I started to ignore him for a while.. but then one day he instant messages me.. and we talk for a little bit more. He was telling me how he couldnt go on like this, and how he loved me a lot. Turns out he is breaking up with my cousin very soon. And, the thing is.. I really love this guy.. but hes not the cutest. Even my friends think hes ugly.. WHAT DO I DO?!;[

2007-05-15 08:43:03 · 7 answers · asked by Kaitlyn S 2

How do you build your self esteem back up after going from a size 9 to a size 18 ( had a 8lb baby) and the weight not coming off? I feel down all the time, because my husband is really thin, and I am huge, And all his x's are extrememly thin as well. I know I just had a baby, like 9 months ago, but I am the biggest I have ever been. And I don't know how to stop feeling tired all the time. What can I do? I think its affecting my marrage , I am always on him about other women, but I think its because i'm not happy with the way I look? What can I do?

2007-05-15 08:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by jessica29154 3

A good friend of mine told me, after braking up with his girlfriend, that he knew she really cared about him, loved him, cherished him and did everything he wanted. However he ended up braking up with her because he said he was bored and he needed more excitment in his life. Does anybody understand this? Is it fear of commitment? Is he not ready to have a serious relationship or what? Or maybe he just wasn't in love? I just don't understand.

2007-05-15 08:07:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am scared to tell this to my wife about all this .iam sure she will forgive me.but she will have a doubt for me in future.and not only that everytime when i will fought with her she will take this matter out. please advice what is the best.

2007-05-15 07:03:58 · 31 answers · asked by pirsa363 2

i amm exteremely sexy by nature and i have proved this ,the time i had sex with those who gave me the chance to do it and i got the response from the horse mouth .and the best of it is those who had sex with me they don't seem to leave me but the sadest part of it is i have some inborn problem which i think and practically it is which hinders me me in my sex life and that is ,i have a bad mouth breath .so please advice me how i can i solve this big problem ,because i have developed inferiority complex because of this .in a nutsshelljust advice me how can i solve this big problem being within the problem.awaiting your quick response .thanking you so much.

2007-05-15 07:02:47 · 15 answers · asked by yon 1

2007-05-15 07:01:25 · 2 answers · asked by applecheeks 4

2007-05-15 05:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by Steven Colbert 4

I know if I take her to court and she wins she will make my sons and my life a living hell I'm thinking about just leaving with him and disappearing. and yes I have pictures of the bruise.
I believe she might have hurt him before but this is the first time my son has said that she did it . he is 11 yrs. old

2007-05-15 05:11:39 · 17 answers · asked by iberich1 1

2007-05-15 04:52:05 · 11 answers · asked by tinabadina 3

I like this women but she is far from my place(A)..at the same time, there is a 2 woman at my place that like me very much (I think so) but i cant take her as my speacial girlfren(B & C)(sweetheart).I keep tellin to A about B & C because i feel so comfortable to make a conversation with A. So im confuse & afraid now because B&C is keeping in touch with me almost everyday.

2007-05-15 04:16:26 · 10 answers · asked by confuser 1

What I mean is that I don't understand why it happens when it could be the worst timing in your life, when you least expect it, it may not even be with the right person for you and you know it...and yet you can't control your feelings and you still fall in love??? Anybody knows why???

2007-05-15 04:13:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 04:10:49 · 26 answers · asked by elsa s 1

- this is where the simple bit ends and the complicated stuff starts. Thing is when we first got together I needed some time and space,he became briefly involved with someone else, and within 2 weeks she became pregnant. He decided to stand by her, and to make a go of the relationship. Problem is we remained emotionally involved, speaking on the phone and texting - meeting for coffee etc. Inevitably things progressed...and we keep ending up back in the same position - trying to make a break from each other but never quite managing to do so. Whilst I feel bad about the fact that we are having an affair, I so do not want to walk away. I know that I'm heading for heartache as the baby will be here in just six weeks, and the pain that could be caused to the girlfriend is imense - yet I truly believe that we are soul mates, wrapped up in a difficult situation. Do I walk away and hope that we will be together in the future ? I worry that if we finish he will be so upset he tells her

2007-05-15 04:07:29 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 04:05:10 · 9 answers · asked by jemz 1

Hi i would like to have some help here. Am getting wet before doing anything sexual, and it is really embarrasing for me to have my boyfriend have his hand over me. what can i do, does any girl ever faced this situation?

2007-05-15 03:56:40 · 1 answers · asked by blackidentity 1

I have been out sick for the past 3 days with a doctors note. My boss is always asking me, whats wrong with you? She is very nosy and has spread my business around! Is there a type of privacy matter that us employees have so we can keep stuff confidential. She told me I was going to be in trouble if I didn't tell her....but I dont have to tell this crazy lady anything! What do you think?

2007-05-15 03:28:48 · 11 answers · asked by Still Standing 4

I meet this boy not to long ago and i have very deep feelings for this boy but i have a boyfriend who loves me and so does this boy and he knows i have a man and he still wants to be with me but i still want to be with dominique but he live like far but not to far cause he can still come to my house and he is allways busy but josh lives on my street and is madly in love with me and will not let me go i tryed to say lets be friends but then he will tell me how much he needs me and start crying and i just fall for him and dominique has been such a good boyfriend i dont know what i should do who should i do i dont want to leave any one

2007-05-15 02:46:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

As long as the ego runs your life, most of your thoughts, emotions, and actions arise from desire and fear. In relationships you then either want or fear something from the other person.

What you want from them may be pleasure or material gain, recognition, praise or attention, or a strengthening of your sense of self through comparison and through establishing that you are, have, or know more than they.
What you fear is that the opposite may be the case, and they may diminish your sense of self in some way.

When you make the present moment the focal point of your attention — instead of using it as a means to an end — you go beyond the ego and beyond the unconscious compulsion to use people as a means to an end, the end being self-enhancement at the cost of others. When you give your fullest attention to whoever you are interacting with, you take past and future out of the relationship, except for practical matters. When you are fully present with everyone you meet, you

2007-05-15 02:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4

i have a boyfriend now that i dont really like and i dont think he really likes me either but i cant beak up with him. im also pretty sure that he is cheating on me with other girls. but i dont care about that because i have been cheating on him with one of my friends. but i want to know how i should break up with him. like how to tell him and not hurt him?? i also think im pregnant with his baby.

2007-05-15 01:58:55 · 19 answers · asked by alaina 1

i was at a nude beach recently and had 2 girls ask me to pleasure myself for them. we were just talking and they wanted to see how far i could shoot. it was all in fun, so i did it for them. we never touched each other. is this cheating?

2007-05-15 01:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by julian k 2

My name is Sylvia, and I am a 17yr female. Yesterady morning, I knocked on my Dad's door because I needed my shoes for school that I had left in there the night before. He was having sex with his fiance, however, it was so early so I thought he just didnt want to be bothered when he said "In a minute." I waited for another 5 and my bus was leaving. I knocked softly so as not to wake them and opened the door. I saw her butt naked on top of him and I said..."Dad?" They jerked away from the light of the door and I quickly closed the door and went to my room. A few minutes later, my dad walks in and throws my shoes on the floor, walks up to me and slaps me!! I'm practically an adult. Feel free to be critical. Was I more in the wrong? Did I deserve it?

2007-05-15 00:48:03 · 29 answers · asked by sylvia e 2

How bad is my life ... when the best part of the day is one of my answers getting picked as best answer?

2007-05-15 00:46:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous