i was at a nude beach recently and had 2 girls ask me to pleasure myself for them. we were just talking and they wanted to see how far i could shoot. it was all in fun, so i did it for them. we never touched each other. is this cheating?
2007-05-15 01:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by julian k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ah, but it is true. the beach is called Blacks Beach, in San Diego and yes ,some of us have a life and do grazy things sometimes.
2007-05-15 01:25:03 · update #1
I dunno.. this is a tough one. I'd say yeah, because basically you're pleasuring yourself for two other girls. I'd be pretty upset if I knew my boyfriend was just shooting his load "just to see how far it would shoot" for two skanks.
2007-05-15 01:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so... but then again, I don't believe in monogamy at all so my perspective may not be what you're looking for.
I believe that in that situation (being that there was no touching, etc) it would be the INTENT that made it cheating, and as it was all in fun I would say no... not cheating.
But if you knew your girlfriend pleasured herself in front of two guys, would THAT be cheating? Make sure not to make a double standard of it, also check within the boundaries of your relationship for a precident to check against.
Also, you could just tell her. Honesty is always best. Then you could decide together if its cheating. If you hide it and she, say, finds out about it from you writing it for the world to read on the internet, she will be pissed that not only did this happen, but you hid it from her.
Good luck.
2007-05-15 01:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a gf and you pleasured yourself for these two girls, then yes...it's the same as cheating.
2007-05-15 01:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-05-15 01:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by jazzcarbon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are cheating the readers here by telling them a story that is obviously not true.
2007-05-15 01:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what beach was this? I wanna go? and yes that is cheating
2007-05-15 01:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by Chet the Body 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, and gross why would you do such a thing? Glad you aren't my boyfriend, you would't have to worry about pleasing anyone ever. And this has to be a joke right?
2007-05-15 01:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shame on u, yes that is cheating... come on if u love ur girlfriend then u wouldnt do anything like that....think next time
2007-05-15 02:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by BrassKnux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as i am concerned, yes
ANYthing that takes away from the relationship you have is cheating...
would you like it if SHE did that for some guys??
2007-05-15 01:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about cheating, but it sure is lame.
Shame on you!
2007-05-15 01:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by LoLo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋