Well, Me and my boyfriend live together and I was cleaning one day and found a piece of paper sticking out of his wallet. I looked @ it and wasnt sure who it was ( he has broken my trust about 7 or 8 times so I had a right to do this! ) I *67ed the number and it blocked me which means it had to be a home number and not a cell..He later told me his boss told him to call him if he ever slept in again..i believed him. He slept in this moring and so tonight I asked if he called his boss and he said no that he was off and it wasnt his work number it was his cell phone number. I told him him it couldnt be b/c it blocked my number and he got pissed and ignored me until he fell asleep. I looked up the number ( me and my b/f go to a state college ) and it was someone about 4 hours away. So Im wondering if he could of been talking to a girl that went 2 college here and went back home for the summer and thats her home number. Seems sorta weird that his 'bosses' house is 4 hours away and the #...
2007-05-15 09:24:22 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The number I found isnt a cell phone number its a HOME number..he also gets private calls everyday. I know it was wrong to look at the paper but he has done stuff before and told me he changed and i just wanted some relief that it has. how am i suppose to know if the changed or not without seeing if he is doing something behind my back?
2007-05-15 09:25:28 · update #1
I will be honest, I am in a kindof similar situation right now, but I am an investigator too! It is so hard to trust a man that has lied and cheated before, but I have always learned to go with your gut feeling! Listen to things they say, and watch them, you don't necessarily have to go snooping through wallets and clothes and ****, but don't be blinded by your love for him! If he's your typical man, then he will do something dumb right in your face and then you'll have the answer you are looking for! Good Luck!
2007-05-15 09:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the truth is, this relationship has been over for some time. The entire basis of a solid relationship must be mutual trust ... and that is long gone here from what you say. Move on, and let him do the same.
Sorry, sometimes the truth hurts, but better to face it than keep feeding a dead horse.
2007-05-15 16:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, I would suggest putting a keylogger on your computer. Then when he's not home, you can look to see if he's having any online contact with this person who is four hours away. There is one that is a free download, but it sucks because it's easily detectable. There are a few others out there that are not as easy to find, that is, if he's looking.
2007-05-15 16:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he lying? Not just yes but, HELL yes. Why would he have to block his bosses number anyway ? Run, don't walk away from him.
2007-05-15 16:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get hurt any worse, you need to move on! He's a liar, and a cheat!
2007-05-15 16:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ha,lol hes lying lol. lol
u guys lol seriously lol. thats hillarious
2007-05-15 16:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by homegrownbuddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋