i have a boyfriend now that i dont really like and i dont think he really likes me either but i cant beak up with him. im also pretty sure that he is cheating on me with other girls. but i dont care about that because i have been cheating on him with one of my friends. but i want to know how i should break up with him. like how to tell him and not hurt him?? i also think im pregnant with his baby.
2007-05-15 01:58:55 · 19 answers · asked by alaina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know its his baby because he is the only one i've been sleeping with.
2007-05-15 02:03:46 · update #1
If you have been cheating on him, how can you be sure he is the father of your baby?
I would say, tell him everything you have said here. Honesty is always the best policy.
2007-05-15 02:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a though one.
1. Take pregnancy test. If your not pregnant, decide whether you want to continue cheating on oneanother-but it's wrong.
Talk to him and either break it off or be serious about your relationship.
2. I am glad that he was the only one you slept with, it makes it easier on everyone, especially the baby. You two must decide to have the baby together, by yourself or not at all.
If you get an abortion, you may get another chance in life, but your killing your baby and may regret it for the rest of your life. If you keep the baby by yourself-it's gonna be a long tough road. Sometimes, babies have tendencies to bring out the paternal instincts in men (not all men run for the hills upon announcement of premarriage fatherhood).
3. If you keep the baby, you gotta raise him/her. That means no more parties for you. No drinking, smoking, late nights with friends, b/f(s). If your going to school, your chance of graduating is really, I mean really, slim. Sooner of later (usually couple monthes ofter delivery) you gotta get a J O B. You gotta suppot this baby of your-make ends meet. And then it's gonna be like that for the rest of your life.
Sometimes single parents find ways to finish up in school, hitch up with another single parent and decide to do the braidy's bunch thing or just find a way to become successful. But this is much harder to accomplish by yourself. Not to mention the amount of time you spend on your child.
I really hope the best for you. good luck.
2007-05-16 05:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by sir_kenny1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a single parent and if you to are cheating on each other you should not be together there is one other problem a baby first thing before you do anything get a preg. test done find out for sure if you are you need to tell him that you are preg and it might be his be honest its the best way may be hard but i know you can do it i have been there same situation acutally but i found out he really wasnt cheating on me and the baby was his but just you two need to go somewhere not around friends and family cause it could make thing worse just you to even it is to dinner and let him know that you need to talk to him hope it works out for the best good luck
2007-05-15 09:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st get a positive answer about the baby situtation and then if you are or not break up you dont love each other just use to each other. not sure how old u r, but really move on if he is good dad he will be around if not u and the baby never need him
2007-05-15 09:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by abckids 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. If you are cheating on him you are already hurting him and showing that you don't really care about him at all. You need to simply confront him and end it, and soon. If you are pregnant don't kill the baby, adaption is the best way.
2007-05-15 10:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by bws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't be hurt, if he cheated on you. You must make sure of this first.
In regard of the baby, it's tough issue. maybe you should not act on impulse. if he wants this baby, that means he is responsible, and is a person worth spending life time with. But if he is scared of the baby coming, he will break up with you. maybe you should be consult your parents, or older peoplel how to solve it.
2007-05-15 09:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u have had a great time with him , but u dont feel like boyfriend or girlfriend anymore, or u need some time alone
i can give u more ideas just send me an email thx
2007-05-15 09:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by BrassKnux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a dna test done and be honest with him, you dont have to remain in a relationship with someone you dont want to be with, but with all the cheating going on at some point you are going to have to grow up and think about what is best for your child so that he/she can have a future without all the drama in your life...
2007-05-16 18:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're pregnant, you should have more on your mind. Like the baby, and what's best for her/him.
This is all conjecture on your part, right? You THINK he's cheating. You MIGHT be pregnant. It MIGHT be his baby.
-- Sounds like you need to get your head on straight. You're playing in the big leagues, and you're clearly sandlot ability.
You should have done some growing up before you went around screwing up. Now, you've got possibly three lives messed up, and you're the only one who sounds like you deserve it.
2007-05-15 09:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Yesugi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have some unresolved isssues that you need to discuss with someone. Ask youself this question. why would I stay, cheat on him, get pregnant with his baby ( if it is his remember you have been cheating) and not mention anything at all to him what your feeling before it got this far.
2007-05-15 09:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by adrienne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋