What I mean is that I don't understand why it happens when it could be the worst timing in your life, when you least expect it, it may not even be with the right person for you and you know it...and yet you can't control your feelings and you still fall in love??? Anybody knows why???
2007-05-15 04:13:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well- to a certain degree you could control it- love is not the same thing as infactuated. When you know that something is wrong- you are infactuated with the possibilities of something. when you are in LOVE- they could do no wrong- and you don't see anything wrong.- Big difference.
Why do we fall in love, it is built into our DNA- enjoy it and go after it!
2007-05-15 04:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by theman134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im not soo sure why that always happens. If you ask me I think when we fall in love and it may not be the right person I think that everything happens for a reason, and when you do fall in love with mr. right you'll already know and have experience with all the other assholes you were with and all the other nice guys too. But when he comes around you'll know it. And even though it could be the worst time n your life if its bot mr. right, ou'll know what your doing and you'll be a better and stronger person for it. And if it does happen when you least expect it then you are soo much better off with out him any way. And trust me even when you can't control your feelings even when you know it is not mr. right things could always change and if not you'll get tired of it one day or something will happen or someone will come. Believe me I'm in that situation right now.
2007-05-15 04:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young one, you can't control your feelings ... but you CAN control how you act on them.
Children act out on their feelings. Maturity is the ability to control how you act upon your feelings and the ability to recognize emotions that would have a negative effect on your life.
Immaturity goes with the flow and gives free reign to the emotions. That's why mature folks seem to have their lives together and immature folks seem to always be messing up.
Maturity has nothing to do with age. As for your present situtation? I'd consider the long term consequences before I ran with my emotions.
It's better sometimes to wonder "what if" than to really find out the hard way.
2007-05-15 04:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by gilariverrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To fall in love is amazingly organic. while we are available in this international, we are in want of a pal and that's our mom yet we on a similar time time we dosnt understand the meaning of friendship in spite of the undeniable fact that that is unselfishly . so that is genuine friendship between mom and the toddler. while we enhance as much as 7-8 year, we want some acquaintances to play with us. while we enhance as much as sixteen-17 year and above, there comes a brilliant substitute in our thinking lavel. There happens plenty in our lifestyles something candy, something bitter. on the sametime we want a real chum with whom shall we proportion our issues, who's particularly trustable. the relation with this persone is LOVE.
2016-11-23 14:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by sechler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the result of chemical reactions in one's brain. The major chemicals at play are Testosterone, Oestrogen, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Serotonin, Oxytocin, and Vasopressin.
Testosterone and Oestrogen are part of the lustful phase of a relationship.
Dopamine, Norepinephrine, and Serotonin are part of the attraction phase of a relationship.
Oxytocin, and Vasopressin are part of the long term bonding and relationships characterized by strong attachments.
However, for a more poetic definition, Till Lindemann provides a cynical and jaded description of love in this song called 'Amour' (French for love).
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2007-05-15 04:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Andy E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart is stronger than the brain! Its sad, but true! sometimes we fall in love with the wrong people to lead us to the right ones! its really a pain and an inconvience sometimes
PS - I am an SJ too -- Sara Jane here
2007-05-15 04:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I met Andrew and started having feelings for him I thought it was a bad timing but in fact it was a GREAT time. We're now happily married and I'm 17 weeks pregnant with our first child. But I think love is wonderful when you find it with someone who deserves your time, feelings, and won't ever let any harm come to you or cause any for you.
2007-05-15 04:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand what you mean. I dont understand it either, I have been going through a situation for a year or so now and I cant seem to correct this problem with my emotions.
I am not going to go into it too much but I do love someone dearly and he knows it but, there is no chance we will ever be together. I try not to love him but I cant help it.
I dont know what I am going to do either.
2007-05-15 04:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by I am woman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think we can't control our feelings.It is a simple mind setting.If you let your mind think of the things you wanted to entertain,then it is likely to happen.
There are times you like a person simply because he is attractive.You begin thinking about him, and already thought it's love,but if you try to control your mind and emotions,you will be able to handle sitiuations correctly.Be logical
2007-05-15 04:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcuz its something that u cant always control in a long time. i myself hate to fall in love and i rely hate love but still deep inside i know im dying 4 it. love will just break ur heart eventually
2007-05-15 04:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋