i have been with my boy fr neally 12 mth's but im really paranoide about him and his ex. i find msg's from her and he just says there from her he didnt reply or any thing but i have been hurt befor what do i do ??
2007-05-15 17:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am sorry after a year of dating this guy the old girlfriend should be out of the picture. And if she has not encouraged this then I don't believe they would still be in touch. No I would not trust him. Don't think that he is the best person for you while you are already questioning his fidelity and feelings. This maybe be a door closing, only to open a window for you for true love...stranger things have happened.
2007-05-15 17:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by yellowfaries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurities are showing! We all have them, of course, but we can't let them rule our lives. Until you have solid evidence that you can't trust him, you simply have to deal with your irrational suspicions. Don't "dump" him like the others say, because you'll just go onto the next relationship feeling the same way. Keep your eyes open, of course, but since you said that you are "paranoid" and that you have been "hurt before", you have to realize you are operating with an unhealthy point of view. Hang in there. Over time, in good relationships, trust is built and your fears will prove unfounded.
2007-05-15 17:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do he have kids with this ex's? If not, you should ask him why he is still staying in touch with her. And if you feel that paranoid about his and his ex's. there is only one thing to do. Confront him about it, tell him if he continue getting message from his ex's that the two of them need to work out there problem and get back together. And you move on with your life. The lesson learn from this, when one continue staying in touch with their ex's (without kids involve) make him a double XX's
2007-05-15 17:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your gut about the situation, she is sending messages and he isnt responding, he is either replying and letting her know that he wants to continue talking to her or isnt man enough to tell her not to message him anymore either way he isnt sending her any clear message and letting her know that she shouldnt contact him anymore....
2007-05-19 14:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't reply to any of the messages everything is probably alright.
2007-05-15 17:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by lil penut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't control his ex. Do you trust him?
2007-05-15 17:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by bookish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't beat them.....have you ever thought about joining them??
call her and tell her you have a crush on her.
this should fix the problem.....
she will call him......then you act suprized.
then call her again
2007-05-15 17:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either trust him, or dump him.
2007-05-15 17:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your instincts
2007-05-15 17:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by joe fats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont trust that he is being honest with you then you shouldnt be with him :)
2007-05-15 17:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋