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2007-05-15 18:41:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it could go both ways. I see the point of view for waiting after. You marry pure, and lots of exploring is left. However, I see the point of view for before. That way you know what it's like with that personand how to prepare yourself for the rest of you relationship with your spouse. I mean, lets get real. Most relationships revolve around sex the first couple of years. Too little sex, and your partner may feel insignificant and may choose to explore other relationships.
2007-05-15 18:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by my_angel_annrayia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you're speaking from a religious standpoint, but let me just add my two cents. In my opinion, it's not so much before or after marriage, as much as before or after you're truly prepared for it. Because sex, as much as we hate to admit it, really complicates things. There's a huge shift in the relationship dynamic, and it can be overwhelming if you rush into it. So if you think marriage will help you handle that kind of pressure, than wait. But if you're sure you can handle it without, then go for it. marriage is just a legal commitment, most people are capable of making the emotional commitment long before walking down the aisle
-Raven
2007-05-16 01:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by The Raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b4 for sure...
I know alot of people are into the whole, no sex til your married thing, but sex can definatly make or break a relationship and you wanna know what your getting into before you make the commitment.
I think that marriage is forever, I dont think that people should get divorced and sex is definatly one of those things that falls under the catagory of "getting to know someone"
what happens if you get married and the person is a total freak in bed? (not the good kind) like spreader bars and candle wax and handcuffs? If you cant please that person or they cant please you then your kind of in a rough spot.
Now I definatly dont base a relationship on sex alone, there are soo many other MORE important factors in a relationship but in my experience, good sex holds Shi**y relationships togeather when they shouldnt be and bad sex ruins great relationships..
2007-05-16 01:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Seth G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a question but I will say this. Many beliefs about sex before marriage is controlled by their religious beliefs. Same with the idea of manogomy.
I will also say this. You souldn't have sex with anybody you are not willing to have a baby with or die for because either is a very real possibility.
2007-05-16 01:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to religion. After marriage.
2007-05-16 01:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by RuThLeSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We test drive a car before we buy it, right? Hopefully the marriage would last longer than the vehicle.
2007-05-16 01:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after
2007-05-16 01:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by syamala v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you and your partner. i was all for sex after marriage, and next thing i know im in love and not wating. its really up to you. if youre ok with not trying every person out there and only sleeping with one person your entire life, then wait. otherwise be responsible, but sleep with whomever you like.
2007-05-16 01:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before if both of you are ok with not been a virgin during your first night.
After if you want to be a virgin.
The choice is as clear as black and white.
2007-05-16 01:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is to make sex before marriages.. you know the "sex part" is verry important.. and if you gona marriage someone and then make sex.. maybe you will not feel so good with him.. or maybe him will not feel so good with you .. and when you have sex problem with your bf is not so good for your marriage!!
2007-05-16 01:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by Hades v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋