if i love her and i dont think she feels the same should i tell her?

Question

i started dating this girl alittle while ago and we got along great. everything was perfect and she made me feel soo good. she made me happy and made me want to be a better person. we dated for about a month and she went on a road trip with one of my freinds and came back likeing him. the day after she broke up with me she came to me crying saying that she still wants to be with me. then she went ot my friends house to talk to him about it and she told me it would be better if we were just friends. she dated him for awhile and then broke up. she came back to me asying that he was everything that i told her he was. i abouslutly love this girl...i dont know why i just do...thats all i know and i want to know if i should tell her how i feel about her?

Answer 1

Dude, she's all about the game. Leave her be....run from her if you have to. She's all about her & having her own way no matter who gets hurt. She doesn't care for you or your friend, she just cares about herself. Her tears are as fake as her sincerety. Wake up & see it !!! If you want to be locked into a game of hi & bye, then sure...tell her you love her. If you ever want to meet the right girl for you, then run far far away from this serious game player!!!!

Answer 2

I can see and understand your hesitations here mate. From my point of view it seems that she has been totally honest with you. So long as nothing happened on this road trip with that guy. If nothing did then she sounds like a girl to love. I think telling her how deeply you feel maybe a bit too strong. Send your self an email, telling her how you love her. In a way this will timestamp how you feel now. So when/if the time comes she will know how you felt all this time. Before you open up you need to find out if she actually wants to be with you. Take it little by little, tell her you had to let her make her decisions in the past but you always felt you were the one for her, say things like i think we should be together but only if you want me like i want you. Youre very dear to me and i want you in my life like that. When/if she comes to love you then thas the time to say i love you then show her the email and say youve always known. Good luck mate and let me know how you get on

Answer 3

This girl seems to have broken your heart more than once. However, it also seems like you have such a great love for her. Think about why you think she does not love you like that. I think it is good you are trying to figure out what she is thinking but no one can ever be completely sure. Girls are nuts I am one of them.
In the relationship I am in now I told the other person I loved him first. It was something I had to do. A year later he felt comfortable/felt it to say it back to me. Before I told him how intensely I felt I went through all the consequences in my head- i.e. that he would want to break up, say he would never love me like that, etc. Unfortunately, I think you are going to have to do the same (go over consequences in your head). I am afraid for you to get hurt again but I always encourage expression of love. It takes a lot of courage.
Something I noticed that is weird... did your friend that this girl went out with for a but know how you felt about her? If so he does not seem like that great of a friend. The girl also seems to not know what she wants, which may affect your love proposal. Best of luck.

Answer 4

I believe i know much about relationships and girls. I also believe that the girl you like is confused. We all have been confused sometime, haven't we? You should try talking to her about it, ask her some question about it,hang out with her, make her a close friend. People like her need friends like you. But remember! Whatever you do, don't let her realise what you feel about her yet. That would ruin everything! While you are with her, you will find out many things about her, the way she thinks and so on...This way you will realise what her ''problem'' is...Then you will be able to know whether she would be able to love and feel something about you without hurting you.

Answer 5

Though some say love is blind and i'm saying love could see, there you are life and direct in your presence, while u're still living, she walked away, shed tears and u accepted her back, she might be taking you for a ride, don't dig your grave yourself, when you're so blind to see, you shall be blind and then marry her and after she'll do more than now cos she knows a fool accept anything.
Tell her and send her packing, better beautiful package out there! go grab.

Answer 6

Life is nothing if you dont take some risks. Bite the bullet. Tell her you love her. And i hope you get the same answer back. You sound like a good guy.

Answer 7

Sounds like she is very confused. If you don't mind having your heart broken a couple more times go back. If you want to be happy, find someone that won't cheat on you, then break up, then want to come back, etc...

Answer 8

tell her u love her.. every girl wants to be told it, even if she is stubborn, or strong willed, or doesnt seem to have a care in the world, we just to be told that we are loved.. dont do the txt message thing. tell her to her face.
what are you gonna lose?? so u told her and she never talks to u again.. its better to love and lost then never love at all..

Answer 9

Is she going to tell you how she feels, or are you going to tell her how she feels?

It seems to me that you're a bit long-winded for such an impatient fellow.

Answer 10

just tell her!
i think there's nothing wrong with that if your feelings is really true right?

besides you know each other...
it's better to be true to the one you love...than to hide something important to you...