2007-05-14 22:25:49 · 25 answers · asked by arunpmk i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good job on butchering the english language.
2007-05-14 22:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Alisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tryed actually talking to your wife about this. And you probably think you need sex everyday but you dont. Maybe if you kept yourself busy in life you wouldnt have the time to think about having sex so much.....Its a pyschological thing. Why do you have to look elsewhere for sex, obviously that does mean you do not love your wife enough as sex is and intimate desire between 2 people. And besides there are other ways you don't have to have sex u can use ur hand for instance.
If you feel you are not happy with your wife then what are you doing with her. It is not fair on someone else in a relationship to be hurt by someone elses needs or wants....Not everyone can have what they always want in life.....and Everyone has choices in life....
If you end up sleeping with someone else and your wife found out do you not think she will be hurt. And to see your wife hurting will only hurt you in return.
Y not try spicing things up a little, buy her flowers, chocolates or sweets, put rose petals on the bed...make her feel special...make her candlit dinner for 2..etc...
Then maybe you will find that intimate relationship you desire.
2007-05-15 05:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by julie60988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,even God took a break on the 7th day.unless u are 17, u can sure go without sex for a couple of days. so go easy...u must be in the prime of ur sex life or something. going outside for sex may workout in the short term, but it is not a permanent solution besides being a drain on ur finances. try to woo your wife. dont always think intercourse is the culmination. even kissing and petting by ur wife shd be good enough before u go solo into the bathroom and shag off.
2007-05-15 05:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by happy2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have established both your sexual needs and drives before marriage . I suppose you are going to say this does not happen in your culture . well at least you could have talked about it , or are you going to say that doesn't happen in your culture too . then perhaps it is an impossible culture for you to work within A woman if she has any sense will not get involved with a married man and I think once you have tasted freedom on e woman will not satisfy you
|I don't think anyone will be rushing to you from this column so if it is a cheap way in your mind to meet partners I think you are waisting your time .
Tell your wife you will have to go to prostitutes and cut her allowance accordingly see what here opion and position is then
2007-05-15 05:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women love to have sex everyday too. So instead to look for women out there. Think why ur wife is not satisfied, maybe one of u both has a problem, and try to solve it. Then u'll have a great sex life within a stable marriage. Don't betray her, if u went on this way, u'll bring such troubles for u out of nowhere.
2007-05-15 05:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sex is important in life. But there may be some problem why ur wife refuses to do sex daily just sit and ask her is there any problem to do sex daily.
and when it come that the sex is important in life then the relation may break so be patient and do sex 3 days or 4 days in week don't force ur wife just solve the question.
2007-05-15 05:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jenith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an infant... FEED ME NOW MOMMY!!!! I want the GI joe doll, i HAVE to have it.... You don't NEED sex every day, you just want it, and you aren't adult enough to go without for the sake of your marriage and your wife's emotions. I'm a guy, so don't think you're being told off by some frigid woman. I like sex frequently, too, but if my wife really isn't in the mood, we've got like 50 years so I can wait one night. Jerk it, dummy... You don't deserve the love of a wife until you mature.
2007-05-15 05:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried talking to her or even putting her needs above your own, you sound selfish and like you want your way all the time maybe she is fed up with it and tired of you just seeing her as a toy who is just there to give you sex, there are more important things in a marriage besides sex, if you aren't mature enough to talk and communicate what is bothering you with your wife to try to resolve some or the issues and think she is just there to pleasure you then maybe you need to rethink why you got married in the first place....
2007-05-16 18:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can sex be imprtant ten ur wife?? ius tht y u got marrid well u got marreid fro the wrng reson then?? mariige is not jus bout sex its bout biend in sumpne life and loveing that preson till the end and sex is the most beautiful part of it but its sad that sumone like u only wants 1 thign form it grow up thtas all ican i say to u
2007-05-15 05:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
... you are an egoist, a little boy... if they don´t give you what you want you just take it... poor wife!! Maybe you even bring Aids to your home....
Did you ever hear about feelings??? Probably not!!
Your wife should divorce you, you are a cheater!!!
Or even better: Maybe she would love having more sex, but not with some egoist, stupid and selfish guy as you... I can imagine how your sexual relations are: As far as you are satisfied everything is in order, right???
2007-05-15 07:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur sex drive has always been incompatible u can complain. but if its different because u have grown apart, had kids or simply stopped cherishing each other, work on ur relationship. girls dont want to have sex when their emotional needs are not being met. that includes disrespecting her so much u getting it elsewhere
ps: sincerely hope thats not the way u sound on a daily basis coz that wd expl why she doesnt want to have sex with u:)
2007-05-15 05:35:49 · answer #11 · answered by kiki68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋