Have been married for only 5 months. Friends of mine have told me that having your husband or boyfriend give..

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foreplay down their, helps to provide a better orgasm. My husband and I were both virgins before we got married. We are learning, as we go along. Picked up a book, for him - to teach him how to perform orally down their for me. The book is called
"The Lowdown on Going Down: How to give her mind-blowing oral sex." We had never dated anyone before we started dating one another. How do I bring up to him that I want oral sex? How do I go about giving this book to him ? It is awkward. Thanks for all the help.

Please NO answers from men please.

Thank You.

Answer 1

The best way is to tell him what you want in bed. You can say that you heard from friends, read it isn a magazine, or saw it in a movie. However you tell him, let him know that this is something you would like to try.

If you are looking for a fun way to give him this book, go buy yourself some lingerie or sexy underwear and wrap them with the book as a present. Give it to him after dinner or whenever the two of you have time to play a little. Offer to read the "manual" as he explores.

I did that once with my boyfriend when I wanted to try a different position. It worked and was really fun.

Answer 2

Hello C T,

Five months is certainly time enough to do a little experimentation.

I don't blame you for wanting to experience new sensations and chances are, you'll find it VERY pleasurable. Don't be afraid to tell your love what you like and don't like... moans, murmurs of "ooooooh," "more," and "that's soooo good" are very good feedback for him.

If you have tasted and tantalized your man, it's only fair that he reciprocate.

Get him in the mood, playfully tease him, almost touch and then withdraw, and when he is quite eager...cuddle up close to him, hand him the book and nibble and whisper in his ear in a sexy fashion that you'd like to try this... And while he's looking through the book (hopefully there are pictures) you can touch and tease some more without taking it too far... which, of course, can cause him to lose interest.

If he seems agreeable, then he can take it from there. You can 'applaud' his interest by making it a very, very positive experience.

Behavior which is rewarded is repeated.

Hope this helps.
Tara

Answer 3

This should be very easy> Right now the two of you are still experimenting and still have alot to learn. He should not be offended. Instead he should be really turned on and satisfied that he has a partner that is not afraid to express herself in the bedroom