Other - Family & Relationships - 7 May 2007

I have been with my boyriend nearly 3 years. Last night I saw a bloke that I went to school with years ago. There had always been chemistry between us for years while we went to college together. I later texted him to tell him i had always liked him. What do I do, I feel like I have betrayed my boyfriend or is it perfectly innocent texting this bloke?

2007-05-07 22:35:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is wrong if a woman has lost her chastity before he marriage to somebody before marriage and she wants to have relationship some other guy since she is not all satisfied with her marriage as her husband is not upto her satisfaction

2007-05-07 22:21:17 · 15 answers · asked by janu 1

I m trying to figure it out what is my fault?...i fell in love with a girl from my school. she herself told me that she like me from our school days..i was not in love with her at that time.but with the passage of time our bonding grows and i fell in love with her with the bottom of my heart. we talked on phone everyday for 3- 4 hrs daily or even more..but after three months she told me she is not feeling the same which she felt earlier..and she want to end that relation..instead she offered her friendship..firstly i refused her frenship but after 1 week i came back and told her that we can be frens....but the problem is that whenever i talked to her the same thing come to mind everytime..that love all of her things...she is still fresh in mind..i m unable to forget her....i love her even now....wht shud i do????? wht is my fault?? is ths is my fault that i loved her so dearly? i cant forget her...please help......

2007-05-07 22:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a lovely boyfriend who I have been with for years, and I love so much. Thing is we are living a long way away from each other at the moment and don't see each other that often. I met someone on Saturday night, and although absolutely nothing happened, I can't stop thinking about him. I am worried that if I see him again I won't be able to resist! Does this mean my feelings have changed for my partner?

2007-05-07 21:53:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 20:26:01 · 9 answers · asked by RCV 1

I was working a 9-5 job for about a year and very suddenly my father passed away at age 45. This has disturbed my life in great detail as it was very unexpected. I have 2 little 1/2 brothers that had to move to Whistler, BC to be with their mom (my ex stepmother). I was very unhappy with life so I decided to get a change of pace and I moved to Whistler to be with my brothers and also try and move on from my father's death. I lived in Whistler and loved it for about 6 months. I was then offered an amazing job with the company I left to first move to Whistler. I thought this is what I wanted so I packed up and moved home. I now find myself in this rut again. So should I just give up on this amazing job and move away again or should I try and stick it out. I had a lot of people push for me to get this position and I feel really bad if i just give up 2 months in but at the same time is it really worth me being unhappy?

2007-05-07 18:08:03 · 15 answers · asked by Indecisive 1

my mom wants me to come home because it is too much for her to pay for i dont want to come home yet but on the other hand im not doing so well how can i tell her.i dont want to come home but im not doing good.

2007-05-07 16:50:50 · 1 answers · asked by angel20ph 1

just wondering how many times you think its gonna be before it actually feels good?

2007-05-07 16:38:48 · 5 answers · asked by soxbabee 2

i'm doing a project for class. where i live is very liberal... so I was wondering if I could get opinions from people that come from small towns or other areas with less cultural diversity. feel free to be as frank as possible, but please be mindful of the language. :)

2007-05-07 16:23:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sex is everywhere:

TV ; Movies ; Magazines ; Shopping in stores

It is like we can never get away from it. What ever happend to classic America when sex and divorce wasnt everything.

What do you think?

2007-05-07 16:12:28 · 4 answers · asked by [?] 2

the apartment and all the bills are in my name and my girlfriend of ten years turned 30 this year and decided that she wants to break up. we have two daughters and she doesnt have a place to go. she says she loves me but the desire is not there and she wants to find herself and not live with regrets. she has never dated or been single like that and she wants to experience it. should i keep my doors open and let her experience and see what she is missing or should i tell her to get out and close the door? mind you she stated that once she cleans her closet she never put the same clothes back in it and at the same time she has never depended on herself what should i do? her mother says be patient with her but i have a feeling it might be mid life but she says its not. we never had any serious relationship problems she just said it was something that was in her for a long time. she only wants to be friends with no benefits and wants me to find someone better than her, let me know somethin

2007-05-07 15:41:39 · 21 answers · asked by kinetic 1

He and I never broke up.He went to the army,I moved away,we've losted touch,both got kids and are with someone else.After years of seperation,we've find each other and realized that we can't get enough of each other.I'm trying to do the right thing by staying away,but my heart is pain.Soldier boy is the only guy my heart and body desire.

2007-05-07 14:17:30 · 4 answers · asked by G.I jane 1

Do you believe in MOST relationships, there is one person who loves the other more? Or do you believe your feelings are evenly divided?

2007-05-07 14:14:46 · 12 answers · asked by Miranda M. 2

My partner and I have been together almost 7 years. Almost a year ago we split up because she said I didn't care for her. The truth was she had a lot of debt to leave behind, and used myself and my children as the excuse for leaving. However I convinced myself that the relationship was salvageable and proceeded to make any ammends. I have poured everything into the last year to make things right between us to no availe. Maybe I shouldn't expect anything in return, but respect, love, care and attention would be nice. Sex once a year, not nice.

My point being, I caught her chatting and flirting on SLINGO's community. However, the description and running commentary she was giving MACONAT left absolutely nothing to the imagination. Innuendo it wasn't! She'spayed me no attention for 12 months yet gives this guy a "tingle down his spine". On top of that he only lives 45 miles away and she has invited herself there for coffee. Please help. Good advice readily accepted.

2007-05-07 12:51:51 · 26 answers · asked by IAN B 1

If love is the universal understanding of existence; are you capable of loving your life partner and someone else of the same gender of your life partner, husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend etc...
without feeling a sort of personal wrong doing and accept when your life mate see's that behaviour as adulterous?,

Please explain how you understand what I have asked as a part of your answer....

2007-05-07 12:44:38 · 1 answers · asked by Aware 2

right before you go to bed.........?*

2007-05-07 12:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there anybody who faced this and solved it? I need real advice, not easier said than done advice that i always hear from people who never had this problem.

2007-05-07 12:10:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 11:13:25 · 21 answers · asked by x Jay Jay x 2

I am in love with a platonic friend and he knows it. We hang out even if he is seeing someone else. lately, i think he has been single again by the flirting and asking of questions about my dating life. thing is, i want to ask him out again. he may or may not be seeing someone else, but pretty sure he is single again. anyway, if i ask him out and he is seeing someone or says no, i think i want to end the friendship totally because it hurts not being with him. is it wrong and selfish for me to do this?

2007-05-07 10:50:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

friends with benefits relationship came to an end about six months ago with this guy.He broke it off with me, by text message and told me that if i contacted him again he would file a restraning order against me AND tell these group I know of our relationship, including his best friend, which was my frin so the next day his best friend calls me and invtes me to an event he happens to be hosting. I decline the offer because I thought it was pretty weird that she would just call me up after not hearing from her in six months.But now, when I see him on campus, he speaks and says hello, and even told me to call him, and smiles at me like everything is all okay, but with her it's a different story. she doesn't speak at all, I even tried calling her and I got no response. I even heard that they are not friends anymore. So my question is why the adverse response.Do you think he went back and told her something and if so why is he cool about the situation and she's not.

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Just to give a little more background of the situation, his best friend ALMOST became my sorority sister, but I never continued the process, plus i knew her before I knew him, BUT i asked him IF there was anything going on, several times as a matter of fact, and he assured me that there was nothing going on between them, I even told him that I almost joined the group, and he told me he didn't care about that, and he liked me..but I feel like I 've done something wrong. How do i overcome the guilt?

2007-05-07 10:23:04 · 1 answers · asked by Beautiful inside and out. 1

Is it bad to have more than 1 friend with benefits? I have 3. I can't get enough of it. 2 of them are girls and 1 of them is a guy. How many friends with benefits do you have?

2007-05-07 10:14:33 · 1 answers · asked by Jenny M 1

i love this guy and he feels the same way. we were talking about having sex and i want to but im scared. becasuse im very self concious about my body. I need help from people that can give me some advice on how to relax to do it. Im ready, but im just self concious about my body and im embarrase to show my body in front of him. i need advice on how to calm down and help me.!!

2007-05-07 09:22:50 · 10 answers · asked by &~TOAST~& 1

Any ideas please?

2007-05-07 09:21:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you data pakistani guy or a woman ???? what are your views on them??? i have bought this topic up because i have just watched a programme about seggregation on bbc one.

2007-05-07 09:20:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. my life is horrible. i have this problem. i have this boyfriend his name is drew. we have been going out for about 9 months. but everyone is telling me they think we should break up cus i deserve better. even my friends mom told me that. but 3 days ago i broke up with him and asked another guy out. he said yes and then drew just asked me back out yesterday and i said yes, and i dont know what i should do. go with drew or the other guy. cus my friends dont like drew and neither does my family but i love him. please help!

2007-05-07 09:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 09:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 08:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i kind of have an idea on where i want to go for my birthday, but i need some ideas on what i should have at my birthday party, and what kind of activities we could do and so on???? by the way i'm turning 17 next month.
thanks for the advice

2007-05-07 08:55:23 · 1 answers · asked by lovely chick 2

I'm 20, she's 22, I dont think we should have a child until We are in our thirties. She's depressed about it, possibly suicidal, I just want out now, and dont know how to do it. Help me, please.

2007-05-07 08:38:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok.. so here´s the deal
1.I have always been really smart and responsible, and suddenly I started failing a lot because I couldn´t do my homework, I really really can´t concentrate. I´ve tried. And what I do do comes out wrong!.
2. My family always compares me with my brother, and at last I had an opportunity to show my parents and all of them that I´m intelligent too, but I didn´t pass to the next stage of a competition, only to the first one. I´m sure I could have passed!!!! and won even, but I got so distracted.
3. I´m seriously in love, I´ve tried and CAN´T forget him and I´ve tried to do other things to get my mind of it but I can´t.

As u see, love, family and school are all at stake here.
Please, what can I do to make things right again?! this is all happening because of my love.. he dosen´t love me back, but I feel as if we were meant for each other like Romeo and Julliett, I know SOMEDAY he´ll take notice of me, but right now he has a GF.
I´m done for.
oxox
Ive

2007-05-07 08:30:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous