I have a lovely boyfriend who I have been with for years, and I love so much. Thing is we are living a long way away from each other at the moment and don't see each other that often. I met someone on Saturday night, and although absolutely nothing happened, I can't stop thinking about him. I am worried that if I see him again I won't be able to resist! Does this mean my feelings have changed for my partner?
2007-05-07 21:53:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only you can answer that, but long distance relationships very, very rarely last.
2007-05-07 21:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had a partner to love and to hold at night, and to share the good times with. NaaaaaaHaaaaaa.
2007-05-08 05:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cos u not seeing ure bf much. You arnt getting as much attention as u want so when this guy sat night comes along and gives you some attention u love it. I think u need to look at what u and ure bf are doing and maybe change as u might end up leaving him for someone else who can give u more
2007-05-08 05:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no , it means you had some nice attention that at the moment your bf isnt on the sceane to do hiself , you often after a while have these feelings , try to remember to think about the qualities your b/f has and remind your self how you feel about him , grass is never greener on the other side !!! i know from experience . good luck , but enjoy the feeling as it gives you a spark , but dont act on it ..
2007-05-08 05:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by j.j. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a very simple question to ask yourself (although the answer is not simple at all) and it is, " Am I willing to risk my relationship with my current boyfriend to be with the new man?" Best of luck to you.
2007-05-08 05:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is probably fantasy infatuation - you don't know this boy, you only just met him! Up to you really - risk loosing your long term bf by dating this new guy or stick to your bf.
Depends if you care about your bf. I've been with mine a very long time!! - and I can promise you, this won't be the last time in your life that you meet someone more glamorous/ interesting/ goodlooking/ funnier than your bf....but you just have to choose.
2007-05-08 05:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only you can answer that, and can answer what you want from a partner in the long run.
it is possible to be attracted to more than one person at a time - how you act on those feelings is up to you.
2007-05-08 05:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant love someone until you really know them, I think you might be feeling a bit lonely right now and missing your other boyfriend. If you love your boyfriend as much as you say you do don't do anything to jeopardise your relationship
2007-05-08 05:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by nethnee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may just be enjoying the attention because you are missing your boyfriend. Ask yourself if you would even be interested in this other guy if your boyfriend was there with you.
2007-05-08 05:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well tis tings happen in life bt wat u have to ask yourself are u willing to give up everythin u have with this man for this guy who u have jus met. Remember dnt leave the one u love for the one u like coz di one u like will leave for the one they love. so u should analyse yo relationship wit yo man and see wat u want to do. hopefullt it works out dnt make the mistake i made
2007-05-08 06:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by fishbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋