I m trying to figure it out what is my fault?...i fell in love with a girl from my school. she herself told me that she like me from our school days..i was not in love with her at that time.but with the passage of time our bonding grows and i fell in love with her with the bottom of my heart. we talked on phone everyday for 3- 4 hrs daily or even more..but after three months she told me she is not feeling the same which she felt earlier..and she want to end that relation..instead she offered her friendship..firstly i refused her frenship but after 1 week i came back and told her that we can be frens....but the problem is that whenever i talked to her the same thing come to mind everytime..that love all of her things...she is still fresh in mind..i m unable to forget her....i love her even now....wht shud i do????? wht is my fault?? is ths is my fault that i loved her so dearly? i cant forget her...please help......
2007-05-07 22:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is NOBODY'S fault - people's feelings change over time. In time, your feelings will change too - but if it is too hard for you to see her as just a friend (that's how it sounds), then you need to take a break.
Explain it to her that you want to still be friends, but that you need time to heal and move on in your life. If she is a true friend, she will give you your space - and will be waiting for the friendship to continue when YOU are ready for it.
2007-05-07 22:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop seing her. You can't. Too bad emtions involved. AND, If there is a very little chance for you to get her back (which is not sure it's what you'll want in a few weeks), try it : act unaffected. When you see her, smile, be happy, but not after her. see other girls, have fun with them. What life taught me (I'm 38) is : better not to have expectations : go with girls, many (only those you like of course), dont think of anything else than having fun (sex, YES, there is nothing wrong in it, and whatever they say sometimes, girls love it and when they feel good with you, comfortable, they can beg for having sex all the time AND, the more you have girls, the more you have girls : it's like a restaurant : people always go in the more crowded one). Then sometimes you wake up next to one who is nothing like the others, and things turn romantic by themselves, naturally.
Better than being after a girl, then being disappointed and, like she told you : not feeling the same any more, very quickly.
2007-05-08 05:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away for awhile. If you continue ti keep her close, you will not be able to move on as quickly. Occupy yourself with something that you enjoy doing.
2007-05-08 05:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont think like that...may be she got another idiot better thanu
so she offered fredship to u and love to another........
forget that kind of fickle minded people..they doesnt know what they do..........choose a girl who is broad ,not fickle
good and honest........ok
worls is so large ...with lot of colors(girls)..enjoy man
life is a challenge chase it.....enjoy it......if she losed u ,,.then she is going to loose ur valuable love..dont waste it for thiskind of girls..ok
2007-05-08 06:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by ss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A CLUE. SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP. LAST TIME YOU WILL BE TOLD.
2007-05-08 05:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋