Feeling guilty.Do I have reason to be?

Question

friends with benefits relationship came to an end about six months ago with this guy.He broke it off with me, by text message and told me that if i contacted him again he would file a restraning order against me AND tell these group I know of our relationship, including his best friend, which was my frin so the next day his best friend calls me and invtes me to an event he happens to be hosting. I decline the offer because I thought it was pretty weird that she would just call me up after not hearing from her in six months.But now, when I see him on campus, he speaks and says hello, and even told me to call him, and smiles at me like everything is all okay, but with her it's a different story. she doesn't speak at all, I even tried calling her and I got no response. I even heard that they are not friends anymore. So my question is why the adverse response.Do you think he went back and told her something and if so why is he cool about the situation and she's not.

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Just to give a little more background of the situation, his best friend ALMOST became my sorority sister, but I never continued the process, plus i knew her before I knew him, BUT i asked him IF there was anything going on, several times as a matter of fact, and he assured me that there was nothing going on between them, I even told him that I almost joined the group, and he told me he didn't care about that, and he liked me..but I feel like I 've done something wrong. How do i overcome the guilt?

Answer 1

One thing is you sold yourself short, but I'm pretty sure your so distrated by the head-game that you don't even realize it. The other is the fact that you call this lady your BEST FRIEND yet you can't ask her a deep question like this? I think that makes her your best aquitances not your best friend. Now as far as why he is smiling, its simple, he got what he wanted. Your just really looking... well stupid... as far as her reaction to you it could be as simple as there being so much distance for so long, she want'd to end that, and you didn't help it by refusing to meet her. So she just basically gave up on you. Realize the entire friends with benefits was great in junior high, you should have a lot more pride for yourself by now, and if your in colleage playing this game, well sad. Sorry it is, so really that guilt could run so deep as to be a reflection of how you feel about yourself and your ownself worth. If not then its just you feeling guilty about maybe stealing this girls chance to get laid by this guy, which personaly is really a sad way to see it. Now if he went back and told her something that also shows me how shallow you and her relationship is since she didn't even confront you about it. Maybe its time to take sometime off for yourself before some other cute guy gets you thinking that relationships should just be sexual. Good luck with that player!