OK - we are 99% there - My boyfriend and I have decided that we are moving in together and he has all but just confronted his daughter with it. She's not going to be happy, but she will come around - I have a good feeling for a change. Anyways, I want my man tobring his personal posessions and everything else he wants to help make this house "our" home - even though it has been my house, it will become OURS and he needs to feel that & so I am supportive of him hanging his pictures on the walls, he has full control over the garage - yadda, yadda. He thinks I am a toal trip because I am spirited about him feeling like it is his home too. Says that realistically, he thinks it is going to take him some time to get used to it. SO - do I help him settle in or should I just be open to him saying "where can I put this?" - even though my answer will be "where would you want it"? Does this make it easier for him or harder?
2007-03-27
05:20:36
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martiek7
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