What would it take for you to forgive the person you hate?

Question

Perhaps not hate, but dislike, someone who lied to you, cheated on you, but you never forgave because you're stubborn? But you still care about them, even if you won't ever let your face lie.

How about a phone call telling you that they're dying....

Answer 1

i forgave the one person i thought i never would, but i tell ya, it does wonders for the soul

Answer 2

it particularly isn't any longer elementary to love those you hate maximum. i be attentive to its problematic and that i'm nonetheless attempting. The extra i attempt to love them the extra they harm me and make me hate them. So what I do is purely forgive and ignore. Forgive them for what they have finished then attempt to ignore what they did, it facilitates me. The once you have completely forgiven them then you definately can commence loving them. each and every time I relatively have a problematic time then I purely pray. wish this facilitates. Sorry if I indignant you via any ability.

Answer 3

Anger, resentment, hatred ... all of these negative emotions are like poison and they destroy the person who has already been hurt by the actions of another. It is natural to be upset when someone hurts you, whether intentionally or not, but you have to allow yourself to let go and move on.

Answer 4

Not forgiving someone is not an option..Jesus said "forgive even as you are forgiven". It's a hard thing to do but he will show you how..just ask him!

Answer 5

wow. I don't know i know the people you hate are hard to forgive, but if they called and said they were dying, i would probably forgive them.

Answer 6

Yes, that should do it. Or they give up a kidney if I need one.

Answer 7

he died.. i forgive him haha, that'll do