Other - Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

2007-03-27 18:49:07 · 6 answers · asked by David 6

2007-03-27 18:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by jam 1

Our realationship has been strained lately.. Shes extremely stressed, and it just keeps getting worse.. I admit I can be a little tough sometime but I'm not your average bratty teenager, I'm actually okay.

Im so different from her, we share almost no personality traits, and no apearances... But today she said " I love you, but I really don't like you " I dont even remeber what we were talking about, But my heart broke. I thought I would be okay but I still feel the same, broken.
I just started to cry a bit about it now... How can I make her like me ? Were just so different..


What makes it worse is that her and my twin sister get along pretty well... I'm so different from the rest of my family, I always have dreams that I got switched at the hospitail.

2007-03-27 18:46:59 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1

I've been dating my b/f for almost 3 years, I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH...but he just told me a few nights ago that he wanted to move back to his hometown in november. He told me that he wants me to come with him but we would have to stay w/his mom for atleast a year, so he can save money. right now he's paying almost $900 a month for student loans a month....so he's plan to make a future for us, is to save money/ get back on his feet, work for the same company w/plans to advance to supervisor/manager/and working for his dad on the side. the company that he works for now, is building a new location in november, thats why he wants to leave. What do I do? Do I go or stay? I know he's not going to change his mind, I know he wants to go for sure. should i make that sacrifice? i do love him...

2007-03-27 18:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay.. this year is my senoir year, and i ended up dropping out.I regret it, but my brother went to jail.. my mom got another divorce. My dad is very verbally abusive towards me. I had to get out. I want to go back next year and the transfer to a university!!! should I?

2007-03-27 18:27:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know how gross this sounds BELIEVE me. please dont ignore the question tho i REALLY need advice i am crying myself to sleep 2nite.

here is some backstory: i am a guy, and i have always liked girls. i am now 17 and my dad is in his early 50s. he is a "mans man" type guy he loves football and beer and stuff so its not like theres any chance he is gay anyway.

my mom died 3 years ago and it has been really hard on the two of us. but he has taken really good care of me. he helped me restore an old pontiac and now its a really cool car, and he taught me how to fire a handgun at the shooting range.

plus, i have to admit, he works out a lot and stays in really good hsape. everyone says how handsome he is, and in the last few weeks, i dunno but im like "noticing". i dont know, i find myself thinking about him a lot, not just sex, but just love, you know.

but god, what are the chances it could go anwyhere? what do i do? do i tell him? should i make a move? i am SO confused PLEASE help

2007-03-27 18:24:52 · 19 answers · asked by free_2b_me_66 1

today i went to see my mom and we talked for a min then she showed me the bruses he left on her arm! i looked her and i felt that in my eyes i felt like i wanted to hurt him! my mother has all my life been wit men that beat her and use her. i have a brother he is only 15 and he is now goin thru what i had to go thru except he has not been beat! what would you do and how can i stop this lifelong pain. my mom should know better she needs to worry about my brother and not let him life thru the sufferin i had to o why could she not see this and i am tried of his bs i am about to the poin that i go to him and snap, he lays his hands on me and he will hit the ground. what should or could i do? i dont want to go to the state they will take my brother and i aint havin that either? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

2007-03-27 18:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by kat 2

I am a 26 yrs old female. From the age of approx. 4 to age 10 approx. I engaged in various sexual acts with boys my age and older. This did include some intercourse that I viividly remember. Since that time I have never had sex, but I was just wondering does what happened mean I am not a virgin or ??? I have no idea what to think. Also is this type of sexual activity or "play" normal among that age group? I am really sorry if I sound dense or dumb but this is a serious question.

2007-03-27 18:17:24 · 5 answers · asked by tied together with a smile 2

My girlfriend grandpa is in the hospital and its kinda not looking good. If something was to happen 2 him what are some things i can do to make her feel just a little bit better

2007-03-27 18:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Ray J 2

Arizona or California??
I am torn between Arizona and California. I need to decide where to build my life.

Phx, AZ: I only lived here for 2 years of my childhood. I have a huge family that lives here that is always having fun. The home prices are more reasonable. But it gets very hot during the summer. I would be interested in persuing real estate here.

Sd, CA: I lived here most of my life. I graduated high school and have a best friend for life there. But the home prices are very expensive and my mom wants to move to Arizona, so I would be eventually left alone in SD with only my friends. It is a very beautiful city, and it has a lot of oppurunity; I could do real estate here too.

Right now I am staying at my brothers house in AZ.

I need to decide where to choose...


Where would you go????


thank u :-)

2007-03-27 18:12:09 · 1 answers · asked by Fran Y 3

the thing is, i wont really be able to live out the things that will make me happy if i stay with her..but i make her happy and would be able to keep her happy if we stayed together..how do i make such a choice like that? im a passionate person and love to see others happy an smile..so whats more important..my happyness? or hers?

2007-03-27 18:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend wants me to get an abortion and so does my mother, im willing to comprimise with them and do it, its very ahrd for me and its not for me its for them, i dont want to know tat i should do what i want, because i already thought about that, what i want to know is should i ask of anything in return from either of them and what should i ask if at all?my boyfriend is not very nice to me,hes impatient and doesnt like to see how hard i try to do things for him, shouuld i ask anything of him? i dont wanna leave him and pretend nothing happen a year is a long time to forget, i love him. ehhh. help

2007-03-27 18:00:48 · 29 answers · asked by idontevenknow 2

if only i can turn back times to make my
mistakes turn Right.....

2007-03-27 17:57:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just help...no troubles please.

2007-03-27 17:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by Wind Boy 2

My older brother was in a motercycle accident recently. He had head trauma &2brain surgeries 4the swelling & wasnt able 2speak @ first,still can't move his right arm & leg. He's still in the hospital recovering & therapy.

My sister in law found my brothers cell phone a week after the accident. My brother was a player and had a lot of females.My sister in law never knew he had been cheating. She saw all the numbers and naked pics females had sent him, Of course she was upset.

She went to the hospital & confronted my brother IN ICU! my brother called me & said sis she kicking me when i'm down.I was so hurt & shocked that she wasn't considerate enough 2wait until he recovered 2 confront him that I called her & told her this isnt' the time. I know ur upset but wait until he gets well.
SHe cursed me out & told me dont tell her how 2treat her husband &run her marriage. My brother got mad @me & told me I shouldn't have called. Now i feel so guilty I dont evn wan2 see him. Was I wrong?

2007-03-27 17:50:32 · 2 answers · asked by Honey Luv 3

My boyfriend and I were happy. 2 years ago we were as happy as can be. He's change I don't know who he is anymore. All he does is play on video games all day. He's even got to the point where he doesnt brush his teeth or hair. He does but doesn't. I miss the old him the one I fell in love with the one who loved me. And didnt just want sex out of me or whatever he wants now. I've talked about it to him many times and I don't want to leave him I still have hope and I want to give him a chance. I love him to much to let him go. I know it seems like I should but if you were in my shoes you wouldnt think so. He used to be my skater boy he always hid in his hoodie and always had maners and was sweet now hes I don't know. Sometime it seems like things are getting better but i'm not sure... please help me please?

2007-03-27 17:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do we love the ones that ignore us and ignore the ones that love us?

2007-03-27 17:32:27 · 10 answers · asked by Milena 1

It seems like whenever his mom come around he's a different person. He just forgets about me, He stays talking to her he treats me like i don't exist. He puts her before me, it should be the other way aroumd.

2007-03-27 17:23:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm planning a trip for the summer and im stuck between the two places. Cancun, Mexico or Sweden/Germany? Help me decide plllllleaaaaaaase.

2007-03-27 17:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by M.O.B 3

How is it that the woman I am in love with gets all I got? My loyalty....My love..my attention...my affection...my only desire..She is the woman of my dreams!! Although she knows how I feel she also knows she has got the upper hand. She could have any man eating right out of her hand...She knows she is hot...and she seems to like being noticed by other men.
She often tells me how casually men notice her. This seems to bother me..and yet she say's that because she tells me everything it should be Ok...She often creats insecurity in me and since we are both divorced. I sometimes wonder If I am the right man for her and although I want to believe in may heart that she is loyal and would not cheat on me...but when she tells me about other men noticing her and what she has told me in her secret fantasy's that keep me wondering...We have been dating over two years... Are my reactions normal and should I trust her loyalty. What would U do? She seems to like to play games...Am I the fool?

2007-03-27 17:21:11 · 8 answers · asked by rickmeister 1

2007-03-27 17:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

In regards to family,kids,the one I love,not like when I`m driving,brushing my teeth,going for a run,Etc.So funny guy Move on I`d appreciate some input that would actually make me think!Thank you

2007-03-27 17:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

my friend has 5 children and now shes pregnant again and she told me to come and get the last baby she had and i did but what now, now that she has giving him to me what agreements do we need to arrange because i cant take her just taking him back after i had him and as for the father she doesnt know? her cousin called social services on her and stated she was and unfit mother so how do i handle that with her being in the system should i just let this child go or keep him awwww he is so cute i love him already just after one night TAKE HIM ANYTIME SHE FEELS LIKE IT BECAUSE I WANT TO RAISE HIM THE WAY I KNOW HE SHOULD BE RAISED SHES SCARED BECAUSE SOMEONE CALLED SOCIAL SERVICES ON HER AND SAID SHE WAS UNFIT SO HOW DO I ASK HER TO GIVE CUSTODY OR TEMPOARAY CUSTODY OVER TO ME THAT WOULD NOT MAKE HER FEEL DEFENDED

2007-03-27 17:04:14 · 2 answers · asked by nykeria2002 1

I was just wanted some honest opinions. My boyfriend and i have been together for nine years and get intimate about4-5 times a week if not more and he's still not happy he thinks he's deprived i tell him his lucky. So i was wondering what the fellas think do you agree with him or me. and how often do you get intimate with your ladies.

2007-03-27 16:43:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-27 16:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by courtney_hewitt 1

I am a 20 year old soon-to-be college graduate and have been dating my 22 year old boyfriend for two years now. We have had a bit of a rocky relationship in the past. We have been through his infidelity, an abortion, and a serious of break ups and make-ups, yet throughout it all we have managed to stay together. 1.5 years ago he decided to go to college and has racked up about $20,000+ in debt for this venture, which has only resulted in him earning 3 college credits, as he either fails or withdrawls the classes. For most of our relationship I have been 100% financially responsible for both of our expenses (which now includes his new 2005 jeep payment as well), and currently he is employed yet I still cover about 75% of the expenses. I am also 5 months pregnant with his child. I try to be a good girlfriend (making sure he always comes home to a clean home and cooked meal, etc. and he seems to get all the things he wants) yet he tells me he is unhappy ("40% happy, 60% unhappy)

2007-03-27 16:37:30 · 5 answers · asked by babydoll32 2

I am 28 years old now. And eversince I always follow my dad's instructions. I always obey what he wants. Right now I am working and I am the breadwinner of my family since my mom move ouve out because she cant stand my dad's attitude. I have a boyfriend and my dad doesnt want him with no reason he told me that my boyfriend is ugly and too old for me. He even told me to dump my boyfriend. I both love them and I am happy with my boyfriend so We hide our relationship to my dad. What will I do??? Help me

2007-03-27 16:36:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anna M 1

2007-03-27 16:36:10 · 31 answers · asked by courtney_hewitt 1

Is there anyway possible to find out if a person has changed their name if you know their birth name?

2007-03-27 16:34:37 · 2 answers · asked by pessimist681 1

2007-03-27 16:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by courtney_hewitt 1