I was just wanted some honest opinions. My boyfriend and i have been together for nine years and get intimate about4-5 times a week if not more and he's still not happy he thinks he's deprived i tell him his lucky. So i was wondering what the fellas think do you agree with him or me. and how often do you get intimate with your ladies.
2007-03-27 16:43:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
4 or 5 times a week...but then i only see her on the weekends... it depends on the couple...but if he really feels he's not getting enuff then u should "try" and give it up more...if you absolutely can't for whateva reason then he "should" understand and take care of things himself.
2007-03-27 17:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by donnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all based on personal opinion. I personally would like to be intimate every night if possible. I understand there are circumstances which can arise to stop that, like being sick, too tired, emotionally drained and things of that sort. Typically though, 4-5 times a week is plenty. Now dont take this the wrong way, but maybe you should focus on the quality of how many times the two of you have an intimate encounter. 9 years is a long time and usually sex will become like a routine, everything is the same old thing time after time. That is more likely to not satisy him, or you and he will still be thinking about sex. Try new innovative ideas to spice up each time you are in bed. If you blow his mind away, that one time will keep him satisfied allot longer than usual. That or you might be more in the mood to have sex more often if you are anticipating doing something different.
Good luck to the both of you!!!
2007-03-27 16:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a lucky guy. The operative word that does not describe his feelings is "more"--a person may feel and be deprived not because of quantity, but the variety of what takes place between the sheets. Of course a couple needs to talk to one another if this is indeed the case.
My last girlfriend and I never lived together and we had busy lives. Every opportunity we would get, we would take. It as hunger born of need. We prided ourselves on marathons and raising the bar as high as we could. It never seemed the same--there was always something different and exciting even if it was new way of kissing. I never felt deprived or so intently loved as I did those 8 years.
2007-03-27 17:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is highly attracted to you. I don't see a problem with being intimate with your boyfriend multiple times everyday as long as it doesn't effect you negatively. And if it does just let him know he should understand after nine years. He could also just be enjoying it a little more than you do.
2007-03-27 16:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by bigboi-88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is tripping.
Especially for as long as you two have been together, to get it almost once a day is great.
I mean how many people actually feel like having sex after getting home from a long days work every single day?
Sure throughout the day you might want it, but when its time to get off work, sometimes sex isn't even on your mind anymore. You just want to kick off your shoes and relax your feet.
2007-03-27 16:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That many huh? Wow, I'm lucky if the old lady even says hello to me. We're at the point now that we don't even kiss. We shake hands or give fist pounds. Four or five times a week and he's complaining? Dump him and hook up with me...
2007-03-27 16:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart i know that i am not a guy but girl he is lucky that you still give him any! a alot of couples that have been together that long don't do but maybe once a month!
he is a guy and guys think like that if they get alot they still think they aint gettin enough. tell him to suck it up and deal wit life and that sex is not the only thing that matters!
2007-03-27 16:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mizzy ,that boy is spoiled. After nine years and he's getting taken care of like that? He is lucky to have a lady like you!
2007-03-27 16:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by artic ranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it about 2 times a week..he is VERY lucky!
2007-03-27 16:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do get intimate, and i agree to you because he is so lucky that he has a girl that loves him so much
2007-03-27 16:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by Xers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋