My boyfriend and I were happy. 2 years ago we were as happy as can be. He's change I don't know who he is anymore. All he does is play on video games all day. He's even got to the point where he doesnt brush his teeth or hair. He does but doesn't. I miss the old him the one I fell in love with the one who loved me. And didnt just want sex out of me or whatever he wants now. I've talked about it to him many times and I don't want to leave him I still have hope and I want to give him a chance. I love him to much to let him go. I know it seems like I should but if you were in my shoes you wouldnt think so. He used to be my skater boy he always hid in his hoodie and always had maners and was sweet now hes I don't know. Sometime it seems like things are getting better but i'm not sure... please help me please?
2007-03-27 17:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may need to get him to go to a counselor & let them see what they think is wrong with him. He sounds withdrawn, & maybe depressed.
2007-03-27 17:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give him an actual taste of what hes doing to you he might come around. He waiting for something experimenting. Show him not just tell him that hes being quite simply an idiot. Dump Him hard an fast. He will wonder why and take a good look at himself. Hell be back to you and teh old him before you can blink. And If he doesnt come crawling back do you honestly think he's right for you?
2007-03-28 00:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Giraffe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be close to him, dont lose hope, give him a chance dear. My relation with my bf is not bad, we have faced lots of problem because he is acting like kids, getting to know girls on the myspace and other spaces. He is in his mid thirties and in front all his family I am his future lady. I spoke to him and asked him to give me some respect. I am giving him a chance now because i love him. Love is a great thing and whatever between you guys , i think it deserves to give a chance
2007-03-28 00:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship got boring, he was trying to impress you at first so you would be his girlfriend now he doesnt have to. If he loves you he'll do anything to keep you, so your gonna have to put him to that test. leave him for a week or 2 and he'll return to his old way to get you back. you can only do this once then after that if he returns to being lazy you will have to stick it out or move on
2007-03-28 00:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rodney, j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful. Some times things happen for a reason. Make sure he wants you back because there is nothing worst then running after someone who does not want you back.
2007-03-28 00:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by nana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change even the ones we think wont but if he doesn't want this relationship to work then he will fix himself but if he doesn't then you already know where it will go! its wonderful that you love him enough to try but you can not be the only one that tries! it takes two in a relationship!
good luck and he should be lucky that you want to work on this becuz i wont be havin no man not be fresh!!! chase him wit the waterhose if you cant stand the smell ;)
2007-03-28 01:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may be depressed. Encourage him to get out with his friends or maybe even see a doctor.
2007-03-28 00:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you need to tell him how you feel. it sound like he
just does not know what he want right now. but if you are honest iwth him and let him know that you love him and that
you want to be with him then it up to him to do what is right
if not then time to move.
2007-03-28 00:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want you back
2007-03-28 00:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by vodka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋