I've been dating my b/f for almost 3 years, I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH...but he just told me a few nights ago that he wanted to move back to his hometown in november. He told me that he wants me to come with him but we would have to stay w/his mom for atleast a year, so he can save money. right now he's paying almost $900 a month for student loans a month....so he's plan to make a future for us, is to save money/ get back on his feet, work for the same company w/plans to advance to supervisor/manager/and working for his dad on the side. the company that he works for now, is building a new location in november, thats why he wants to leave. What do I do? Do I go or stay? I know he's not going to change his mind, I know he wants to go for sure. should i make that sacrifice? i do love him...
2007-03-27 18:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My sister went with her husband and moved in with his parents almost two years ago. She is miserable and depressed, plus she is three states away from all of her family and friends. If you have a good relationship and love him, then really it is your choice. What is going to make you happy in the long run? This sounds like a permanent move, think it over hard.
2007-03-27 18:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you say you don't know what to do, do nothing right now. What you should do will come to you later.
Be aware, though, that even if you didn't love him "soo much", you would miss him painfully if he moved away; and that could make you want to go with him just because missing him (in the beginning) could feel so bad. Be on guard against this, and wait out the initial, horrible, missing him phase.
Let some time go by in order to really make the right decision.
2007-03-27 20:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no life-altering commitments in your current town and you do love the guy, THEN GO!!! You can always move back if it doesn't work out.
2007-03-27 18:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by kievlyanochka1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think that he is going to do what he say then go for it. If you don't have money for a house now then I think that he who find a wife find a good thing so may be he is your soul mate.
2007-03-27 18:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him make the sacrifice... You can always move back if you need too
2007-03-27 18:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is crazy girl.. leaving your own life .. your own friends would be a huge step and make sure you can do it !!! living with his mom!!!! make sure you like her and that she likes you!!what about his old life? old girlfriends?
i dunno good luck......!!
he probably is a really good guy.. that and ya'll will get married and have like 7 kids!!!
i wish you nothing but the best
2007-03-27 18:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him, you will be happy with it later.
you can come back if it does not work.
2007-03-27 20:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋