My older brother was in a motercycle accident recently. He had head trauma &2brain surgeries 4the swelling & wasnt able 2speak @ first,still can't move his right arm & leg. He's still in the hospital recovering & therapy.
My sister in law found my brothers cell phone a week after the accident. My brother was a player and had a lot of females.My sister in law never knew he had been cheating. She saw all the numbers and naked pics females had sent him, Of course she was upset.
She went to the hospital & confronted my brother IN ICU! my brother called me & said sis she kicking me when i'm down.I was so hurt & shocked that she wasn't considerate enough 2wait until he recovered 2 confront him that I called her & told her this isnt' the time. I know ur upset but wait until he gets well.
SHe cursed me out & told me dont tell her how 2treat her husband &run her marriage. My brother got mad @me & told me I shouldn't have called. Now i feel so guilty I dont evn wan2 see him. Was I wrong?
2007-03-27 17:50:32 · 2 answers · asked by Honey Luv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, you were not in the wrong. You were just trying to protect your brother. However, your sister in law isn't wrong either to react that way, especially when she just found out she was being betrayed all this time. Still, I'm glad to know that your brother survived, and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
2007-03-28 05:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by josefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong, you were just protecting ur brother. No matter what kind of guy he was to her, she has to give him the common dignity and respect of allowing him to recover from a near death experience. This is just common empathy that any human being should have towards the other. You are 100% not in the wrong for caring about ur bro
2007-03-28 19:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋