I was heart broken,when a guy, friend of my friend, called me up. He wanted to make friendship wid me bt I always avoided.I told him abt my break-up & da consequences I was facing.He seemed to realize bt wanted to meet me.I'd met him bt didn't allow him to touch me in anyway.It showed dat he's head-over-heels in love wid me.He's an established businessman wid a nice nuclear family.I've always told him dat I don't love him.I don't feel that urge for him.He said dat evrything'll b ok aftr marriage.It'd been almost 2yrs of our relationship,still I don't love him.I don't feel anything wen he touches me or it so happens dat if gets closer,I always keep distance.I thought of settling with this nice guy anyway,even if I didn't love him.We share every type of discussions with each other. He tries to fulfill whatever I want. Our common frnds tell us dat, we r such sweet couple. I know, without me,his life'll be tough.So I thought of taking care of him 4 the entire life.Bt 4 months back,a guy came in my life,who made frndshp wid me over phone.We'd met each other.I've told him abt my engagement.He even talked to my fiance over phone.He'd become my best pal,but he started to feel for me.From the very beginning,I cud feel his love for me.Then 1 day he said he loves me,in spite of knowing dat I'm engaged.He cud also guess my love for him.Later 1day I told him that I also love him like crazy.We were meeting each other & started to get closer day by day.I really love this person,but he is not ready to marry me now bcoz,he's not totally settled now.He's only 27 now & I'm 22.I don't know whether to marry the person whom I love or not. both of them loves me.1st guy has to marry in a year bcoz of his age.I know he'll keep me happy,but I know that I can't keep him happy physically or sexually.I can't even tell him abt my love affair with the 2nd. My fiance can realize abt our growing relationship. He wants me to say bt I can't reveal. Now a days, he's telling me not to keep any connection with my lover. What'll I do? I'm keeping a lot of patience.
If anyone needs any more inf, then let me know. Please think by heart & suggest me.
2007-03-14
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Bubai
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