2007-03-14 19:26:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey Sunshine, if you want to keep that name and attitude in your life, you better flee from this guy at work and love your "great husband." Feelings come and go, but love is a committment 'til death do us part."
2007-03-14 19:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lone Papa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to loose the great guy husband you already have. You might have feelings for some guy, but throw a marriage away on an impulse? You swore to God when you married your Husband. When you marry its a sacred oath. Why defile your life for a stranger? You'll be making a mistake you can never fix. Your husband loves you. If you dont love him, tell him, then get a divorce- dont cheat on him. That is the lowest thing a spouse can do to another spouse. Besides, have you heard of Sexully transmitted diseases? My grandparents have been married for 63 years and they are still alive, growing old together I think that is so beautiful. I've been married to my husband and I love him with all my heart! I have two beautiful children. I ONLY PRAY to be SO LUCKY to be ALIVE AND MARRIED FOR 63 years like my grandparents. What a Wonderful LIFE that would be!!!!!
2007-03-14 19:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've been married for a lot of years and you're finding that you're no longer on the same path as your husband? If that's the case, maybe it's time to part ways with your husband.
Maybe it's just a lust thing? Just a question. Be clear on why you have feelings for this other guy.
What do you want more... to be married to your husband or to get involved with this other man? That's the question. It's an either or situation. You can't have both. If you want to be with the other guy more than your husband then at least have the dignity to let your husband know your intentions.
2007-03-14 19:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound cliche but the old saying is true "The grass isn't greener in the other's backyard" You will lose a good thing and you won't remain friends with the co-worker because there will be blame. I lost a good man that was boring and unattentive for a jealous person who suspected me of cheating every time I went to the store. You have a lifetime of regret ahead of you if you stay friends with your co-worker. I don't know of one situation where it worked out for the best. Do the right thing honey and you will never be sorry. Just think how you would feel if your husband did that to you. If that thought doesn't scare you to death then maybe you shouldn't be together. Good Luck!
2007-03-14 19:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by lilrunaway45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your life worth? When you got married you took a vow with the very breath that allows you to live. If you betray that vow then your life is worth just as much as that vow. You should put things at work on a strictly business basis and avoid the other man when work does not require you to talk to or otherwise interact with him. If this does not kill the feelings then find another job. If you will betray your husband then what else would you betray?
2007-03-14 19:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
* Stop, don't jeopardize your marriage. Don't be foolish for a few moments of pleasure. Don't throw away a marriage. You may get into a new relationship with the friend and it goes sour. Then you may wish you had your husband back. Do you have children? Consider who this will affect. Is your friend married too?
Be proactive and reject those feelings for your friend, what kind of friendship do you have if you destroy those you have claimed to love?
2007-03-14 19:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay faithful you are nothing but another statistic to add to the infamous chart of adultery if you do anything if can't work and stay professional then maybe you should sta at home. Consider that you will be destroying your life and the husband you say is so great.
2007-03-14 19:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act on your feelings. What part of your marriage vows don't you understand? Love, honor, cherish, be faithful to....
Time to end the crush on both sides. You two could destroy many many people in what you want to do.
If you can't be faithful Get divorced and then you can hankie pankie with single guys.
Just say no. You have power over your body than you realize.
2007-03-14 19:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your husband for this guy, then in a few months he will leave you then you will see how ex-husband felt. If you don't want to respect the marriage don't get married. Then you could sleep with everyone at your work.
2007-03-14 19:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your Husband.
You married him because you love him
Why leave him?
'Never leave the one you LOVE for the one you LIKE because the one you LIKE will leave you for teh one they LOVE'
Chances are it's the fact that you can't have each other that is drawing you to one another.
Take a look at why you married your husband. You two know each other and you both ore apparently happy with one another. Why risk that for something that might not last?
And I must thank you, for you just helped me answer one of my own questions.
2007-03-14 19:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋