Other - Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

well my old bf of 2 years broke up with me in feb.. for nto bad reasons at all. mostly to focus on school and I the same.. anyways i ask ytoday thru email how he has been... he says hes dropped one of his classes.. so he hardly goes to school at all.. hes been going to parties once in a while. got sh it faced a few times and says "its actually fun if you take it slow and dont wake up wiht a throbbing headache in teh mornning" and he says "i dont knwo what i wasnt to do with my life anymore,i hate myself for doing so horrible in school" he used to be so ambitious and so goal oriented... he always knew what he wanted in life and workede hard for it.. now hes saying "getting sh it faced is fun" im 19 and he's 18 and were both sophmores in a community college.. if that matters.. he WAS mature.. but it seems liek hes throwing his life away.. i know i shoudlnt care about what he does.. i dont. i justthink its sad to see the person he has turned into..

2007-03-10 17:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok you all know i been talkin bout this one guy that i like how would i know he is goin be the right guy for me with me goin through two abusive relationships before so how would i know that he aint goin to do that to me like the rest of them cause the rest of them didnt act like that intill further along into the relationship please help me cause i dont want to get hurt again

2007-03-10 17:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by Amy Daniel 1

please just explain the basics to me if you know :) thank ya

2007-03-10 16:54:52 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2

Me n my boyfriend both really like each other and we talk all the time but mostly about stupid stuff and thats alot of fun and stuff and we do talk about flirty stuff every once in a while cas he is a very freaky guy. But sometimes i just wanna flirt more..wat are some things i can say to start a flirtatious convo??

2007-03-10 16:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-10 16:45:14 · 4 answers · asked by Dee 2

Yeah well ya know I have to keep him in line. Sometimes, he is late coming home from work, and he'll blame it on work or he'll go out with his friends without permission. Sometimes he wont do the housework after he comes home. Other times he acts like he's too tired to pleasure me at night. Like I said he gets out of line sometimes, and I have to show him who's boss. Anyways, some people in his life have been trying to fill his head with garbage, and say that what I'm doing is inappropriate. I've managed to keep him in check by using a electric cattle probe in addition to the whip. If these people keep filling his head with these stupid misconceptions then I don't know how much longer I'll be able to keep him under control. Someone please help me and give me some advice about this situation!!!

2007-03-10 16:32:38 · 5 answers · asked by Sexy Cindy 1

I feel sometimes that I shouldn't even be in a relationship. And I should learn to be independent. I've always had a bf and I haven't been really single in a long time. I'm also very controlling.

2007-03-10 16:15:06 · 9 answers · asked by Sharon 1

My mom is a drug addict and continues to hurt me. i try to have little contact with her, but on birthdays and holidays, i feel compelled to see her. Last week was her birthday, so i took a gift to her and introduced her to my fiance...made a mistake and gave her my phone number. now shes trying to cause probs for me...what do i do?

2007-03-10 16:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by anngeez2005 1

2007-03-10 16:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Becky was with John in high school & she got pregnant. They were both way too young & scared at the time. To make a long story short, the baby was adopted by Becky's parents. Becky & John split up, went their seperate ways. Before Becky's first wedding John called & spoke with her fiancee Steven, telling him that he was still in love with her & to take good care of her because she deserves it. A month later John married Stephanie (we think she was the rebound girl). Five years later, when Becky & Steven's marriage was coming to an end, Steven confessed to Becky what John had said. John is now divorced, Becky is on her second marriage which unfortunately, is not working out. Becky and John's relationship was more than just a high school romance. They were soulmates. Becky found John on Myspace yesterday & wrote him a letter. She came across his number last night, should she call him or wait for his reply?Note* John is not on myspace often, if we wait for his reply it could take weeks.

2007-03-10 15:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we just had a boy and she was a single mother til i came into the pic, we just moved in together and the boys are stressing us both out (age 2 and 2 months), I love her and I want to stay with her but we never get any time together anymore i feel like my life is going down, its almost are if we are only partners, I work 12 hour shifts so i barely get any time anyway when i do get time for us shes tired from taking care of them by herself all day, what can i do to see some light i am stressed all the way out!! help me

2007-03-10 15:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to give inexpensive gifts to my professors who have written me letters of recommendation to show my appreciation. I need ideas that can go to either a male or a female professor. Doesn't have to be unisex ideas but I would like both genders represented in the gift ideas. 10 pts to the best idea.

2007-03-10 15:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by princess_uv_marines 1

2007-03-10 15:36:42 · 5 answers · asked by backwoodscountrywoman 2

2007-03-10 15:34:50 · 4 answers · asked by Random Guy 2

Please help me I don't know what to do about this situation. I was with his mom, and we had ALOT to drink, and well maybe some other stuff to, and well one thing led to another. Well I don't remember everything that happened, and have no clue why it happened, but I know enough to know what happened. I really don't know how to go about telling him about it. I really don't believe people should have secrets from each other when they're going to get married, but I don't even know how to talk about. Someone please help me!!!!

2007-03-10 15:31:52 · 13 answers · asked by Sexy Cindy 1

To those back home
I am gone
yet my memory will go on
kiss the kids I love them so
let them know I had to go
Tell my parents there are no regrets
to those who I fought beside
who came from nation wide
you are all my brothers and sisters
to my bride brush those tears aside
I am here so far yet so near
I am all around in the sky and in the ground
I am in our kids
in your heart
my love caries on
when u need me look to the sky
let your mind fly
I will be there holding your hand
goodbye to those I love
we will meet again one day
we will play in the heavens above




INFO ON POEM i wrote this because i had a friend who died over seas and this is what i thought he would have wanted to say to his loved ones.

2007-03-10 15:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsy 3

Mine is from when I was a kid & I lived in a neighborhood that had a creek in the back. My family & friends would always jump in off of trees & ropes..lol..it was so cold. Most the time my friends & I would swim would be in February when it was freezing, and yet we rarely swan during the summer.Lol.

2007-03-10 15:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't like him at all. He gave me a heart shaped box of chocolates for Valentines Day which was sweet. Then when I wore a dress for graduation pics he said I looked really pretty. Then he asked me out. I said no and felt really bad, but I didn't want to go out with him just because I felt bad. We're friends now, but I can tell he still likes me. He is always sitting next to me on the bus after school and I guess he told some of my friends he was going to ask me to our big graduation dance. I don't know what to do because I really truly don't like him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What do I do???

2007-03-10 15:12:03 · 7 answers · asked by KT 3

can i get some answers from girls why yall are so hard to get or guys input its all good but haha yeah crazy stuff

2007-03-10 14:59:20 · 13 answers · asked by will B 2

My boyfriend is an alcoholic. Iv'e tried talking to him but he doesn't even acknowledge it. What should I do? He needs to drink just to fall asleep every night.

2007-03-10 14:53:20 · 12 answers · asked by anonymous 2

Minds above gutter level here people....

2007-03-10 14:44:08 · 14 answers · asked by soulgirl76 4

My best mate has been sexually abused by a family member all of her high school life. Her head is so mixed up that she leaves the house at night to walk alone and get away. Unfortuneately for her this one night ended up with her being raped. How can i help her through this? she has finally left home but is a complete mess. She just keeps everything to herself. please help me find a way to get through to her so i can help

2007-03-10 14:41:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes i wnat to cry.is that normal?

2007-03-10 14:41:23 · 29 answers · asked by Veronica 2

an hour later she wasnt making anysense like it was almost stress cause i did my best to just take it like a man you know SUCK IT UP even if we have been together awhile now she was like i think we should just be friends and i was like okay but then she started crying and wanted to go out again and was being closer with me than she has in a while so it wasnt guilt or anything almost like she realized she loved me after us being just friends even if only hour after she dumped me an told me to pretend that it never happend its the weirdest thing ever can someone please tell me why she was like we should just be good friends then cry cause she did it even though i tried to be okay and just respect her wants and then she wanted us to be a couple again an answer would be very appreciated and i hope ive been detailed enough thanks

2007-03-10 14:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by will B 2

Well i get in troble a lot for yelling at my brother to stopp annoying me....I just cant ignore him!!!!!!!!!! HELP!

2007-03-10 14:31:54 · 12 answers · asked by <3 ily 2

There is this once women that I met 6 years ago in high school and I always have admired her. I think she is the prettiest woman I have come across. She is also smart and kind to me.
For the last 7 months we have attended the same college and are close friends. Tomorrow I plan to be brave and tell that her that I really would like her to be my girlfriend in a quiet, private setting. What is the best way to go about doing this?

2007-03-10 14:04:17 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 1

ok, my bf is in afganistan and he knows the big majority of my friends are guys. I would NEVER cheat on him but i seem to be hanging out with the same few guys every weekend (or whenever i get time) he hasnt come out to say it yet, but i can tell hes worried... especially considering one of the guys is 39 and im only 18.. sounds screwy right? should i break off all ties with these few people ive been hanging out with or what? ive already told the bf i wasnt cheating or anything but... i'll admit, i would feel just as if not more uncomfortable if i were in his place especially considering hes halfway across the world. so what should i do, find more girl friends or what??

2007-03-10 13:59:31 · 2 answers · asked by Vachik21 2

We have dated off and on for 6 years. We were living together and broke up . We no longer live together. HE said I care about you and love you, but he wants to take it slow and see where we end up.
What does he mean?

2007-03-10 13:57:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

not a flirtatious thing just a friendly thing, cause if you look away quickly it looks like you were staring

2007-03-10 13:53:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tend to live my life caring too much about what others think...How do i change this way of thinking.....

2007-03-10 13:34:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous