ok, my bf is in afganistan and he knows the big majority of my friends are guys. I would NEVER cheat on him but i seem to be hanging out with the same few guys every weekend (or whenever i get time) he hasnt come out to say it yet, but i can tell hes worried... especially considering one of the guys is 39 and im only 18.. sounds screwy right? should i break off all ties with these few people ive been hanging out with or what? ive already told the bf i wasnt cheating or anything but... i'll admit, i would feel just as if not more uncomfortable if i were in his place especially considering hes halfway across the world. so what should i do, find more girl friends or what??
2007-03-10 13:59:31 · 2 answers · asked by Vachik21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are playing with fire being with the guys all the time. You'd be a lot safer hanging with girls. I was wondering why you have all these guy friends. Do you have brothers so you are more comfortable with them? It must be very hard to be over there and worrying about staying alive and who is putting the make on your girl friend. I know you intend to be faithful but a year is a long time to control your body and mind. You both will be in my prayers. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-10 14:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound responsible and thoughtful. Hang out with the people you wish to hang out with. Sure, add some girls. Make it clear to your boyfriend that you intend to continue to be responsible. No, it doesn't sound screwy. Honesty will banish all confusion.
2007-03-10 22:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋