I don't like him at all. He gave me a heart shaped box of chocolates for Valentines Day which was sweet. Then when I wore a dress for graduation pics he said I looked really pretty. Then he asked me out. I said no and felt really bad, but I didn't want to go out with him just because I felt bad. We're friends now, but I can tell he still likes me. He is always sitting next to me on the bus after school and I guess he told some of my friends he was going to ask me to our big graduation dance. I don't know what to do because I really truly don't like him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What do I do???
2007-03-10 15:12:03 · 7 answers · asked by KT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're going to have to talk to him & it probably will hurt his feelings, but it sounds like that would happen anyway. Just tell him that you're glad you have him as a friend, but you don't think or look at him in a boyfriend kind of way. It'll give him a sting for a bit, but at least he'll know what's up & it will give him the oppertunity to look for someone else instead of hoping you'll go out with him.
Good luck.
2007-03-10 15:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you dont like him, maybe you should give him a chance cuz then you might see more sides of him you've never seen. For example, this guy liked me and i thought he was annoying first. He asked me out and i gave him a chance and said yes, and we had a pretty good relationship until he had to move.
2007-03-10 15:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go on a pitty date. Tell him if he just wants to go as friends then fine but not to expect anything more than that. Be honest or your friendship might be ruined forever, I saw that almost happen to two of my friends.
2007-03-10 15:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look be very firm but not mean
tell him that u acknowledge him just and just as a friend and not as a boyfriend!!!if he listens to you then the problem is solved
but if he says no then say that u r in love with someone else and want to go out with him
after all its ur life!!!
just take tasks with brains not with emotions
or else u ll regret it all ur life
hope this helps you
2007-03-10 15:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would just tell him nd then u will feel better, cause u cant make da whole world better if u'll just b nice 2 him worry bout ur life not his, u cant worry now bout no1 else xpt bout ur self, ur bff, nd ur crush :-) well good luck
2007-03-10 15:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out witn him for a couple of days but one thing he might treat you nice you dont no that if you go out with him.
2007-03-10 15:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't wait to read these answers....I might learn a thing or two.
2007-03-10 15:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋