can i get some answers from girls why yall are so hard to get or guys input its all good but haha yeah crazy stuff
2007-03-10 14:59:20 · 13 answers · asked by will B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its because we expect you all to know what we are feeling and how to make us feel better we feel like we shouldn't have to explain everything to yall
2007-03-10 15:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by jengurl89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult question to answer without hearing details. If I had to guess, I would say that she may have trust issues. Have all her other relationships been good ones that ended mutually? You also have to look at her relationship with her father since that's the first male relationship any girl has. If he wasn't really there for her to depend on, then she will have issues with men.
If she hasn't had a lot of serious relationships and her relationship with her dad was good, then something else might be happening. Sometimes, we follow a more experienced friend's advice. This DOES NOT mean that she is being fake. She may be afraid to let go knowing that other people's experiences ended in heart break.
If you are genuine, then just be patient with her and help her understand that you are being real. Be prepared to work really hard and wait a looooooong time. If you can't do this, then just leave her be now. Don't waste her (or your) time.
If you are not genuine OR if you give up too soon, then watch out... 'cause we go REAL crazy when a man that we depend on (even if we don't show our dependence on him) let's us down.
2007-03-10 23:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by nobody knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go watch the movie "What Women Want" Women worry and think about all kinds of things that would make men crazy. I'll tell my husband that I've been worrying about something all day long just to find out it never even crossed his mind. Just love us for who we are and except we will never understand each other.
2007-03-10 23:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by n2mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women aren't hard to get, they're immature and stupid. Find a woman who has her priorities in order, a good job, or at least in her last years of college. She'll have goals, an action plan for her life and she won't get bogged down in inconsequential details or over analysis of every stupid facial expression you make.
2007-03-10 23:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are just as complicated as men.
Each gender will spend eternity trying to figure out the other.
Good luck with that.
2007-03-10 23:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we think exactly what you are thinkin, sometimes we are scared that yall arent on the same page as us. just do something special for her and tell her some things that you have on your chest. (if you have to write it in a letter, sometimes easier to get it out that way!)
2007-03-10 23:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You GUYS are just as frusterating as us GIRLS! *Pokes her questions* But, seriously, it's just something that everyone goes through in a relationship. Maybe give eachother some space and wait for her to come to you.
2007-03-10 23:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...i tell you what!!! i have had every guy/gurl in the world tell me that i am complicated. and ya kno wat? i love it. i love being stubborn. and i dnt kno why sometimes i make no sense, but im just being myself. and yea it is some crazy stuff that us gurls do, but is it really that awful? but then im not the one thats saying im complicated. just let us gurls be the one who's complicated. i dnt think that it would be good that guys/gurls were complicated.
2007-03-10 23:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys r just as complicated! Explain that.
2007-03-10 23:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like a game, very fun and entertaining
2007-03-10 23:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋