Do you feel you're a giver or a taker?

Question

Minds above gutter level here people....

Answer 1

Soulgirl, I have a theory that sooner or later each of us will play all the parts in this drama called life. The answer to your question is easy for me - sometimes I am a giver and sometimes I am a taker. I am a bit of a people watcher and observer of situations and I conclude that we mix differently with different people. sort of like recipes - example, I have always been a responsible person and yet I once dated a guy who threw me into a loop and I spent my rent money on a pool table for his birthday - I had never done anything that stupid before nor since. Therefore, some of us are like ice cream and sardines - good separately but godawful in combination-lol. The best combination is neither a giver nor a taker but both a giver and a taker. Good luck -k-

Answer 2

I try to be a giver, but often that makes me a taker from someone else. In other words, if I commit to my job, I can stay into the night finishing reports and networking, which gives to my employer. BUT that takes from my time with the family, and that's not a good thing. Especially with the lads. Yet when I give my all to the family, I come in late to work, leave early, and may shelve things in order to have quality time at home. It's a wishy-washy answer, but I live in a quite wishy-washy world where I happen to love both my job AND my family. I'd rather err on the side of "giving" to my family though in the long run. I can always get another job....getting another family would be harder for many obvious reasons.

Answer 3

Hi, well I feel that I am a giver and I love every minute of it. I love to help people in anyway that I can and when I go to work I give it my all and the best that I have.

Take care.

Answer 4

in all probability a giver. In concerns of the middle I desire to furnish love and enjoyment. It does me good to renowned that I made somebody happy or extremely joyful them. no longer likely useful why i'm that way. In economic/actual issues way i'm additionally a giver. i will by no skill ask for something if i'm no longer able to get it on my very very own. I savor presents yet satisfaction won't enable me ask for stuff. this could stem from turning out to be up airborne dirt and airborne dirt and dust floor undesirable yet i'm undecided.

Answer 5

Giver. It makes me feel good to do things for others. I don't keep score and I don't care if people give back. That's not the point.

Answer 6

I am a giver. I enjoy giving. I get great joy seeing other people's thoughts become a reality. Giving makes my heart and head feel good!

Answer 7

A giver with most people. But a taker w/ my husband, which is odd now that I thiink about it. He really spoils me. I think I will do something nice for him. Great ? never thought about this before. Does that make me self centered? OMG you have opend up a can of worms for me lol.

Answer 8

A giver, but to be honest with you I am taken advantage of sometimes... and sometimes I give to the point that it enables others to do things that they should not do..and when I do this I am not helping them I am hurting them..I see this but can't seem to stop..I have gotten better but still not like I want to be about it...Good ?....

Answer 9

I'm not going to lie and say I'm all giver. I'm both. I love to receive gifts, but I also get a warm feeling inside when I give. I love to do both.

Answer 10

I'm a giver all the way, but I am now only considering it a flaw I must work on.